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thewordsdevourer's review against another edition
3.5
machado recounts and examines her personal experience of an abusive relationship through the lens of various artistic genres, objects, things, ideas, lending each chapter an eerie, tense, sometimes detached feeling. the aforementioned is also framed against the larger historical backdrop of overlooked and non-mainstream subject of abuse in queer and lesbian relationships, and i learned a lot from the existing canon that's included in the book.
overall, a distinctive memoir on an oft under-discussed experience that's also able to critically discuss larger historical and social contexts.
Graphic: Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Sexual content, Violence, and Lesbophobia
Minor: Animal death, Infertility, Infidelity, and Vomit
plethora's review against another edition
5.0
This books is as much an anthology that points and screams at the undercurrent of Queer history that has been suppressed for centuries by cishet institutions, as it is a personal memoir. Carmen Maria Machado has made a point to champion her community while holding it accountable to the reality its members face.
The author's play and use with genre, theme, format made following this story that much more invigorating, while imbuing the reader's journey with the same fragmented, recursive, reflective search for clarity we all feel in the
Graphic: Sexual content and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Homophobia
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, and Sexual assault
Ugh, men.katiecatlady's review against another edition
5.0
Edit: have updated my rating to 5 stars because I can't stop thinking about it. I love it so much and it has found a place in my heart.
Graphic: Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Biphobia, Body shaming, Confinement, and Alcohol
poltoreveur's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Emotional abuse and Gaslighting
Minor: Adult/minor relationship and Body shaming
emilywasbored's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Biphobia, Body shaming, Drug use, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Grief, and Lesbophobia
Minor: Adult/minor relationship
saintsunshine's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Cursing, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Drug use, Homophobia, Violence, Murder, and Alcohol
Minor: Physical abuse, Blood, Vomit, Dementia, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
averyblr's review against another edition
5.0
"If you need this book, it is for you"
And Jesus did I need this book. I often have trouble putting words to feelings I have and to find those words my first step is finding media that pertains to whatever it is I'm going through.
Needless to say, given that this was 5 stars for me, those words were found and they broke my ribs and they festered there and then they made me feel better about everything.
I don't know that I've ever gotten through a book like this. Like I was devouring it. I think I often struggle with waiting until the ending of a book but in this case, I wanted to live in there forever.
I think part of that could be just how fully seen I felt and how fresh my feelings are but I also think that this is objectively incredibly well written.
READ THIS.
if you've been in an abusive relationship (especially a queer one. Oh my god.)
If you've ever read Little Weirds by Jenny Slate- this is like her battered (lol) older sister and she's here to kill you.
If you're only ever gonna read one book for the rest of your life. Let it be this one
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Child abuse, Fatphobia, and Sexual assault
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Biphobia, and Physical abuse
mallory10100's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Confinement, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Grief, Lesbophobia, Gaslighting, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Animal death, Body horror, Body shaming, Cursing, Death, Blood, Grief, Car accident, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Abandonment, and Alcohol
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Death, Eating disorder, Pedophilia, Racism, Rape, Vomit, Dementia, Death of parent, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
this book really doesn’t feel like non fiction, but it’s a chilling true story and i highly recommend item___'s review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Infidelity, and Gaslighting
rachaelallyn's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Biphobia, Body shaming, Bullying, Chronic illness, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Hate crime, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Grief, Car accident, Lesbophobia, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail