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hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced
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radarocco's review

3.0

not a bad book per se, but not really anything groundbreaking. there are interesting exercises and thoughts sometimes, but overall it’s really all the stuff you already know from life experience, blogs, articles and etc. i’d recommend to read it only to get a name on things but most of the stuff is a well-known advice

cloleary's review

3.0

3.5, not life changing but I liked how practical this was framed
challenging emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

kaymacd's review

3.25
hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced
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whitleybone's review

4.0

I recently wrapped up Jay Shetty's "Rules For Love," and let me tell you, it's been a rollercoaster of insights and emotions. Just like how I was captivated by his previous gem, "Think Like A Monk," Shetty once again weaves his personal stories with ancient wisdom in this new exploration of love and relationships.

As I cracked open the book, I was greeted with that familiar Shetty charm - relatable anecdotes that are like a cozy blanket on a rainy day. His knack for translating complex concepts into bite-sized nuggets of wisdom is still very much alive. And honestly, I've already started implementing some of his relationship tips into my own life.

But here's the twist: While "Rules For Love" had me nodding along and jotting down notes, I couldn't help but notice a slight difference in flavor compared to "Think Like A Monk." It's like Shetty took a detour through Relationshipville, and while the scenery was lovely, it felt a tad rushed in places.

Now, don't get me wrong, Shetty's insights are still pure gold. His emphasis on self-awareness and personal growth is like a guiding light through the labyrinth of love. But there were moments when I wished he lingered a bit more on certain ideas, just like he did in "Think Like A Monk." It's like ordering your favorite dessert and then realizing you got a slightly smaller slice than usual.

And let's talk about the writing style. While Shetty's words are as comforting as a warm hug, there were instances where the prose felt a touch too familiar, almost like he was borrowing phrases from his previous book. I missed that unique freshness that made "Think Like A Monk" an absolute delight to read.

In the grand tapestry of self-help books about love and relationships, "Rules For Love" still shines bright. Shetty's blend of storytelling, wisdom, and practical advice is a recipe for success. However, I couldn't help but compare it to his monkful masterpiece, and in that comparison, it fell just a smidge short.

So, here's the deal: If you're looking for a heartfelt exploration of love that comes with a sprinkle of déjà vu (thanks to Shetty's signature style), then this book is definitely worth your time. For me, it's a solid four-star journey through the realm of love, though it didn't quite ascend to the monk-like heights of its predecessor.

lilygreenwald's review

4.0

This is going to be my longest review probably…

Sometimes it takes an ex-monk to tell you things to realize that they are true. This is the first “self-help” book I have ever read, which made it somewhat difficult to get through. I read the same reason I watch TV—to be entertained. This book was more educational and it took effort to sit down to learn. There were breaks in-between chapters about writing letters and meditations that could be helpful, but I didn’t find myself connecting with those pages. Instead, I really enjoyed how he would relate what he was saying to stories from his clients. That is what helped me the most in being reflective on my own experiences with love. Lastly, I regret not buying the physical copy to highlight and post-it note and refer back to when I have issues in the future, but it will live forever digitally on my kindle from 2013. ♥️
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matthew_reads_books's review

4.0

“Your dreams don’t have to be big, but they do have to be yours”

Maybe the only book on relationships I will come back to at some point. Very very very good.
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thereadingcountess's review

4.0

The beginning (love begins with you) and ending (how to recognize and let go of love and also extending love to the greater world) portions of this book applied more to my season of life, but overall a helpful book.

williegillis's review

4.0

I read Jay Shetty's "Think Like A Monk" years ago after a friend of mine recommended it. My friend was an avid listener of his podcast, On Purpose. I thoroughly enjoyed that first book.

This book, "8 Rules of Love" exceeds his first book and is definitely one of my favorites of 2023 so far. I really enjoyed how this book is broken into 8 rules which are sorted into 4 sections: solitude, compatibility, healing and connection.

I took my time with this book and the practical advice deserves to be revisited multiple times a year. I even bought a copy to lend out to friends and family. Definitely worth a read for those that want to improve not only their relationship with themselves but also improve the relationship with friends and family.