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Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture by Roxane Gay

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roctothorpe's review against another edition

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4.0

Took me a long time to finish but this anthology was excellent. I especially appreciated the diversity of stories and identities included, as the collection features perspectives from trans, queer, cis women and men of different racial and ethnic backgrounds. My favorites of the bunch were Picture Perfect by Sharisse Tracey (a Black woman recounts the sexual violence she faced at the hands of her father, her mother believes her but does nothing, and the struggle to maintain the image of a perfect Black family) and Invisible Light Waves by Meredith Talusan (a woman talks about how she put up with a man who violated her consent because of her desire to feel wanted and loved, and doesn't reveal until the end that

she is trans

). Each piece is narrated by the author in the audiobook, which I thought was especially powerful.

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the_reading_italian's review against another edition

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5.0

Oh. My. Gosh. I loved it. This was a while rollercoaster - and it really showed me I wasn't alone. People deal with their trauma in all sorts of different ways (they laugh, they cry, they drink, etc.), and this book was so powerful in that it gave an example of everything. Not everyone was raped, but some of us were groped. Not everyone was groped, but some of us had our asses slapped in high school. It really goes to show just how many people have similar experience to you, just how many people you could share your story with. I would 100% recommend this. It is definitely one of my new favorites <3

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blover's review against another edition

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5.0

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mmejiaaar's review against another edition

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4.0

this collection of voices and experiences was so much more than what i expected. hard and crude, but so filled with hope and growth. its an important book, it gives voice to the lives of people that, under the patriarchal structure, would normally go ignored. its riddled with paradoxes and the reader does not rid itself of them: how to go about your day after reading this? where do you put this knowledge? how do you keep on living knowing what this essays have told you? and yet i would rather live in this scenario, than to ask the authors to be silent. i hope that everyone that has gone through an experience like the ones described in the book sees that there is a future for them, that not everything was taken again from them in that moment, that they are still here and still able to make something beautiful with their lives.

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bizlet's review against another edition

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5.0

The range of essays was both amazing and sad. Roxane Gay did a great job with this book because it shows so many angles and aspects of rape culture, from the systemic to personal and how the systemic becomes personal.

It was extremely difficult to listen to. Some of the stories challenged my own biases and internalized victim blaming which I needed to be challenged. Some of the stories were for me and all of the stories were for the authors.

This book allowed me to reflect on my own experiences, behaviors, and trauma and understand myself a bit more. That wasn't the goal, but it speaks to how good this book is that I was reflecting on myself in a healthy way, which doesn't happen often when this topic comes up.

It was worth the read. I read it fairly quickly because I couldn't let the book sit open in my mind, which worked out for me but could easily get overwhelming.

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3.25

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katlouisee's review against another edition

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The audio quality was kinda bad so it didn't make for smooth listening or do the content justice. I wasn't rushing back to it and decided to return the library loan early so hopefully another reader can have a better experience

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kshertz's review against another edition

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4.0

This is an emotional journey of the ripple effects of sexual assault. It is both healing and triggering. Some essays reached me deeper than others but they were all reflective and shine a light on the culture we have that allows these sexual assaults to continue.

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kellybronwynt's review against another edition

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4.75

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5.0

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