toochicforsoup's review against another edition

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2.75

I just did not like it.  Seems like pretty basic dating advice that hardly applies solely to women who are interested in the same sex. Feels like a cash grab. One would be better benefited by a free google search. 

chelseamartinez's review against another edition

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3.0

So damn reasonable.

ifrinna's review against another edition

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5.0

Great resource for all the overhanging questions. Loved the section on bi validity!

chelsmoorhouse's review against another edition

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5.0

i love the gays

katiedermody's review

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5.0

Very informative but written in a conversational style that's easy to read and digest. Info for baby queers, lifelong queers, allies, friends and family, etc. 

amarrymeinbostonacademic's review against another edition

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funny hopeful informative inspiring medium-paced

3.75

thewrongkenna's review against another edition

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Would’ve been useful when I was a teen maybe

phoebemurtagh's review against another edition

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I didn't really have anything against this book,* I just didn't find it particularly revelatory. It has a very conversational tone and the advice is delivered with what feels like genuine care. *It does not, however, seem to remember that some queer women are aro/ace, and focusing the book around dating is not just unhelpful for people who don't want to date, but it's actually reinforcing a misconception that being queer is about romantic love & sex, when it truly is a rainbow of experiences. Perhaps it remembers the ace-specs later, but I didn't bother to stick it out that long. 

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elekie's review against another edition

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funny hopeful informative lighthearted medium-paced

4.0

There were some outdated things, but inclusive to trans women so thats a superplus

campbelle177's review against another edition

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funny informative reflective slow-paced

3.5