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Friendship by Emily Gould

sdownsy's review against another edition

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2.0

1. Didn't really love this book. Characters ehhh, story ehhh. 1.5 stars. But it was fast!
2. I didn't like the book in a way that makes me think I wouldn't be able to stand the author if I met her in person.
3. This book raised all sorts of questions for me about how books are marketed. I feel like this could have been a Sophie Kinsella novel - in fact a Sophie Kinsella novel would have been better - but it seems that because the author is connected in the NY Media world her book is considered some higher level of fiction and is treated as such. So I guess reading the book was worth it just for the conversation over dinner that it prompted about chick lit vs lit, etc. etc.

mattburris's review against another edition

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3.0

The most millennial book I've read. Very readable.

hannasbooked's review against another edition

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3.0

This book was not was I was anticipating. That said, the last two pages rang so incredibly true and honest for me, I'll most certainly be picking it up again and rereading.

maria1085's review against another edition

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4.0

This was a good book! I liked how the author showed how each character grew personally and how their relationship changed over time. It was poignant, funny, well written, and the characters were well developed.

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3.0

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Friendship is a book you think you’ve read before. It’s a plot that gets used a lot: modern day friendship or family-hood, the tracking of a handful of lives as they figure out their place in the world. So a book that does this has to bring something unique to the table.

And Friendship does. Up to a point.

For starters, it’s relatable. I can point to a lot of instances that brought me back to specific memories from my own female friendships. And, as someone brought up in a technology-rich time period, those instances where Bev and Amy blogged and texted their way to understanding made a lot of sense to me. Social media and messaging equipment at your beck and call make it easy to decimate a person’s feelings or ask your friend to bolster you up during your lunch break at the touch of a finger. Friendship does a great job slyly pointing out how both dangerous and useful this can be.

This book also captures the utter helplessness that entire people’s lives, whether twenty-something or thirty-something (and beyond). When we meet Amy and Bev, one of them is a wreck, the other barely hanging on to what seems like a pretty decent life: work, housing, love, etc. Then we watch as the tables turn, and how each woman uniquely adjusts to

I liked the way Friendship dealt with time. There weren’t dates or time stamps (“SIX MONTHS LATER,” or “THE NEXT WEEK”) that told you what to feasibly expect. Instead, the passing of time comes across in the writing. It’s been a couple months since Amy has talked to Bev. Three months after this, this is how her job is doing. It’s a subtle, realistic portrayal of the slippery aspect of time. How many months has it been since I talked to so-and-so? Wait, that girl I was friends with in high school has two kids now? Where did the years go? That’s the kind of thing I think Friendship is illustrating well.

But it does slip. When the focus slides from our two main characters – the friendship backbone in a book called Friendship – the book loses focus. Sally, a woman the two girls house-sit for in the beginning of the novel, and become inextricably and confusingly entwined with as the novel closes, draws away from what should be the story’s central focus. Some chapters are told jarringly from her point of view, when she’s not as compelling as Amy or Bev. Her role in one of their lives particularly (sorry that’s vague – it’s a little spoiler-y) I found to be pretty unrealistic. I suppose she’s there to simplify one of their lives and complicate the other, but it was just distracting. I wasn’t a fan of Ms. Sally.

It’s a nice story. Not groundbreaking, but it had some lovely moments. Even heartbreaking, for those of us who haven’t spoken to a friend for a while, for whatever reason.

amanda_'s review against another edition

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DNF page at page 44! No rating.

Almost 20% into the book, and I could still not figure out what part of it was meant to have me hooked. These characters aren't characters I tend to become invested in. They seem to bland and, well, boring. Add that this writing is making me want to skip entire paragraphs, and it's a no-brainer why I DNF'd this.

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cait_lindsey's review against another edition

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3.0

4 stars to the exploration of lady friendship between the two main characters, as well as the struggles they each face in their life regarding careers, success, money, and relationships.
2 stars to the awkward and unbelievable plot line involving the two side characters. So strange.

ampersandread's review against another edition

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3.0

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Friendship is a book you think you’ve read before. It’s a plot that gets used a lot: modern day friendship or family-hood, the tracking of a handful of lives as they figure out their place in the world. So a book that does this has to bring something unique to the table.

And Friendship does. Up to a point.

For starters, it’s relatable. I can point to a lot of instances that brought me back to specific memories from my own female friendships. And, as someone brought up in a technology-rich time period, those instances where Bev and Amy blogged and texted their way to understanding made a lot of sense to me. Social media and messaging equipment at your beck and call make it easy to decimate a person’s feelings or ask your friend to bolster you up during your lunch break at the touch of a finger. Friendship does a great job slyly pointing out how both dangerous and useful this can be.

This book also captures the utter helplessness that entire people’s lives, whether twenty-something or thirty-something (and beyond). When we meet Amy and Bev, one of them is a wreck, the other barely hanging on to what seems like a pretty decent life: work, housing, love, etc. Then we watch as the tables turn, and how each woman uniquely adjusts to

I liked the way Friendship dealt with time. There weren’t dates or time stamps (“SIX MONTHS LATER,” or “THE NEXT WEEK”) that told you what to feasibly expect. Instead, the passing of time comes across in the writing. It’s been a couple months since Amy has talked to Bev. Three months after this, this is how her job is doing. It’s a subtle, realistic portrayal of the slippery aspect of time. How many months has it been since I talked to so-and-so? Wait, that girl I was friends with in high school has two kids now? Where did the years go? That’s the kind of thing I think Friendship is illustrating well.

But it does slip. When the focus slides from our two main characters – the friendship backbone in a book called Friendship – the book loses focus. Sally, a woman the two girls house-sit for in the beginning of the novel, and become inextricably and confusingly entwined with as the novel closes, draws away from what should be the story’s central focus. Some chapters are told jarringly from her point of view, when she’s not as compelling as Amy or Bev. Her role in one of their lives particularly (sorry that’s vague – it’s a little spoiler-y) I found to be pretty unrealistic. I suppose she’s there to simplify one of their lives and complicate the other, but it was just distracting. I wasn’t a fan of Ms. Sally.

It’s a nice story. Not groundbreaking, but it had some lovely moments. Even heartbreaking, for those of us who haven’t spoken to a friend for a while, for whatever reason.

lkoehler46's review against another edition

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4.0

I liked this book. Living as a young adult trying to figure out what I’m doing with my life in New York, this was scary relatable at some points. The characters were written so well and realistically I felt like I knew them. The author did a really great job of capturing the uncertainty and fragility of working/being unemployed/ finding yourself/ fighting out what to do with your life all the while maintaining relationships and surviving as a millennial in a big city.

theinfinitebookcase's review against another edition

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1.0

A great read if you want to feel terrible about all of your life's aspirations.