3.59 AVERAGE

hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

How to Get a Life in 10 Dates is funny and heartfelt. Haleigh’s chaotic blind dates had me laughing, but it’s her slow-burn friends-to-lovers journey with bff Jack that really hooked me. The tension, the banter, and the vulnerability between them were just so good.

That said sometimes parts of the story didn't hold my attention and I found myself zoning out at times. I also wish Jack and Haleigh’s history had been revealed earlier. It might have made their dynamic even more compelling.

Still, this was a fun read! If you’re into friends-to-lovers, laugh-out-loud moments, and layered characters, give this one a try!

Expand filter menu Content Warnings
emotional lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
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brika's review

3.0
funny hopeful lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I found the FML a bit annoying, not enough to stop reading. She is immature and kind of self-centered in deprecated way. The writing was witty but I couldn’t connect to any of the characters. 

bookedandbusywithmrc's review

5.0
emotional hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Dating as a plus-size woman has been... a lot for Haleigh Berkshire. At 25, she’s been at it for a decade, and she's starting to think a break might be in order. Especially since she’s been in love with her best friend, Jack, for years. But after one epic disaster in college, she knows they’re never going to be more than friends.

With her sister’s engagement party coming up, and her family pressuring her about bringing a plus-one, Haleigh and Jack decide to do what they do best: come up with a plan. Haleigh agrees to let her friends and family set her up with ten different people. She’s pretty sure that once none of them work out, they’ll finally get the hint and stop nagging her about dating.

But then, surprise—some of the dates are actually kind of fun. And for the first time in ages, Haleigh isn’t totally miserable. That is, until Jack starts throwing every rule they made back in college out the window. He starts trashing every guy she likes, randomly showing up to her dates, and, eventually, inserting himself into the mix. Dating Jack has always been her fantasy, but now that it’s a possibility, Haleigh is freaked out. Is it worth risking her best friendship for something that might never work?

This book was an absolute blast! It had me on an emotional rollercoaster, from moments of pure anxiety-driven heartache to scenes that had me laughing out loud and praying I never have to experience them myself. The characters are incredibly relatable, representing a wide range of cultures and sexualities, making it easy for every reader to find a connection. I highly recommend this book—though the author may call TLC’s "No Scrubs" an “oldie,” I’m excited to see what they come out with next!
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ryalledupreader's review

4.5
emotional hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging emotional funny hopeful fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
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ththalassocracy's review

3.75
funny hopeful fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

acuriousidea's review against another edition

DID NOT FINISH: 15%

FMC is too immature for me and her reasons for why she doesn’t want to date her best friend likely will lead to annoying will they won’t they get back together drama

katelynthern's review

3.25
emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
funny medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No