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sofiadanielle's review
emotional
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Ouch. This book hurt so much. Emotional and sad, moving me towards certain emotions despite my own personal feelings/family dynamic/etc.
So many passages felt like a punch to the gut; realizations and parallels from real life being drawn in… So moving.
Though I’ve struggled to really phrase how this book moved me, I hope it’s conveyed just how powerful it was.
So many passages felt like a punch to the gut; realizations and parallels from real life being drawn in… So moving.
Though I’ve struggled to really phrase how this book moved me, I hope it’s conveyed just how powerful it was.
Moderate: Death of parent
Minor: Cancer, Suicide, Miscarriage, and Injury/Injury detail
ash445's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
I found this book so interesting! If I had to describe what it's about, I'd say that it's about losing things/people and how often you lose something/one before you actually physically lose it/them and also about the roles that women play as mothers. I loved how the pov shifted with different chapters including moving from second person to third person. I had been viewing the role women take as mothers negatively throughout the book, and I was delighted that Shin Kyungsook explicitly challenged that near the end. I think it will be a deeply relatable read for anyone who has a complicated relationship with their mother or with motherhood.
Shin Kyungsook is a really interesting storyteller. I think there's a lot of deep stuff going on that I can't see due to my limitations as a reader. It's really cool to be able to feel it even though I can't see it :)
Shin Kyungsook is a really interesting storyteller. I think there's a lot of deep stuff going on that I can't see due to my limitations as a reader. It's really cool to be able to feel it even though I can't see it :)
Graphic: Chronic illness
Moderate: Death of parent, Injury/Injury detail, Infidelity, Child abuse, Death, and Dementia
Minor: Animal death, Miscarriage, War, and Suicide
Suicide:thewordsdevourer's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.0
It's quite difficult to sum up my mix of emotions towards this book. On one hand, I do think the summary put my hopes up too high, while on the other the book also succeeds exactly what it sets out to do.
Please Look After Mother's simplicity is, in my opinion, its biggest weakness and strength. The story moves along at a leisurely pace w/o any real sense of urgency, and any semblance of excitement is tempered by the fact that the majority of the story happens in the past and ultimately doesn't alter the ultimate outcome of So-nyo's disappearance. This simplicity, however, also underlines the glaringly obvious yet simultaneously unseen and unacknowledged presence and 'being-ness' of mothers, which makes the book's message so searing and searingly frightening.
While the book could certainly have been at least a little more complex or exciting, it still results in altered tangible real life behavior on my part, which might be what matters most.
Please Look After Mother's simplicity is, in my opinion, its biggest weakness and strength. The story moves along at a leisurely pace w/o any real sense of urgency, and any semblance of excitement is tempered by the fact that the majority of the story happens in the past and ultimately doesn't alter the ultimate outcome of So-nyo's disappearance. This simplicity, however, also underlines the glaringly obvious yet simultaneously unseen and unacknowledged presence and 'being-ness' of mothers, which makes the book's message so searing and searingly frightening.
While the book could certainly have been at least a little more complex or exciting, it still results in altered tangible real life behavior on my part, which might be what matters most.
Graphic: Sexism and Chronic illness
Moderate: Abandonment, Body horror, Death, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Infidelity and Suicide
marywahlmeierbracciano's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Please Look After Mom is a heartbreaking book. It follows a Korean family as they look for their mother, who went missing at the subway station during a trip to Seoul. Her two daughters, eldest son, and husband recount their memories with her, leaping between past and present—grieving, regretting, hoping. Kyung-sook Shin’s title character also narrates her journey, the unacknowledged Passion of a poor, illiterate Korean country woman with secrets and sorrows, attending to the smallest details with great care. This book reminds readers that every person is a whole, complex human being who deserves care and respect—even your mom.
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Grief, and Dementia
Moderate: Death of parent, Child death, Suicide, and Pregnancy
Minor: Fire/Fire injury and War
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