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serena_hien's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: Pregnancy, Injury/Injury detail, Sexism, Death, Alcohol, and Misogyny
Moderate: Infidelity
Minor: Abandonment, Animal death, Death of parent, and War
tlindhorst's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Dementia, Death, Grief, Terminal illness, and Abandonment
Moderate: Cancer, Medical content, Miscarriage, Misogyny, and Death of parent
fkshg8465's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Abandonment, Death of parent, Dementia, Medical trauma, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Grief, and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Miscarriage and War
sunshine_sideup's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? N/A
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Moderate: Grief and Alcoholism
Minor: Child death, Death of parent, and Abandonment
juksu's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
From a less personal standpoint, I feel like this was also just a good book. Each of the individual voices was distinct (and not just because each had a separate reader!), and the translation is great. I think it provided some very thought-provoking commentary on this sort of sacrificial motherhood. Within the role of mother that she has been forced to inhabit, So-nyo does indeed love her children, however she chooses—or is forced to—show it. (Children of Asian parents whose love language is acts of service, please stand up.) Some people say they're unsatisfied with the ending, but I feel like any other ending would subvert the entire point of the novel. Which apparently was to wreck me emotionally.
Graphic: Death of parent, Chronic illness, Dementia, and Grief
Moderate: Child death, Abandonment, Death, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Fire/Fire injury, Infidelity, and Alcohol
parasolcrafter's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny, Sexism, Grief, Mental illness, Chronic illness, Death, Death of parent, Classism, Dementia, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Ableism, Abandonment, Cancer, Animal death, Body horror, Pregnancy, and Alcohol
Minor: Child death, Infidelity, and Fire/Fire injury
jeanniea's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Grief
Moderate: Abandonment and Dementia
Minor: Infidelity, Medical content, Alcohol, Cancer, Child death, and Fire/Fire injury
thewordsdevourer's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.0
Please Look After Mother's simplicity is, in my opinion, its biggest weakness and strength. The story moves along at a leisurely pace w/o any real sense of urgency, and any semblance of excitement is tempered by the fact that the majority of the story happens in the past and ultimately doesn't alter the ultimate outcome of So-nyo's disappearance. This simplicity, however, also underlines the glaringly obvious yet simultaneously unseen and unacknowledged presence and 'being-ness' of mothers, which makes the book's message so searing and searingly frightening.
While the book could certainly have been at least a little more complex or exciting, it still results in altered tangible real life behavior on my part, which might be what matters most.
Graphic: Sexism and Chronic illness
Moderate: Abandonment, Body horror, Death, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Infidelity and Suicide