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Boy Erased: A Memoir of Identity, Faith, and Family by Garrard Conley
16 reviews
brassmonkey's review
3.25
Graphic: Outing, Homophobia, Rape, Religious bigotry, and Fire/Fire injury
Moderate: Eating disorder, Sexism, Suicide attempt, and Racism
Minor: Cursing, Pedophilia, Fatphobia, Animal cruelty, Miscarriage, and Physical abuse
An instance of bestialiy was described.lee_noel's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Rape, Homophobia, and Religious bigotry
Moderate: Eating disorder and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Pedophilia, Racism, Outing, Alcoholism, Blood, Miscarriage, and Addiction
peach_pit's review
5.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Outing, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, and Rape
Moderate: Eating disorder, Addiction, Mental illness, Outing, and Rape
Minor: Child abuse and Animal cruelty
jams_is_rad's review
4.5
Graphic: Eating disorder, Religious bigotry, Homophobia, and Rape
lisamsalgado's review
5.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Forced institutionalization, and Eating disorder
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Alcoholism, and Rape
kimrice992's review
3.25
Graphic: Self harm, Eating disorder, Homophobia, Outing, Rape, and Child abuse
Moderate: Addiction and Alcoholism
skeptic_hecate's review
4.5
Graphic: Homophobia, Rape, Sexual assault, and Eating disorder
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Child abuse, and Pedophilia
james1star's review
4.75
Again this is quite a difficult book to review but from a literary perspective I’d say it is written very well with detailed (but not flowery) descriptions and flows amazingly. The memoir follows two interlocking narratives: chapters detailing the events that happened at Conley’s two weeks at Love In Action; and snippets of his life across the year before attending LIA (relationship with his ‘girlfriend’ and subsequent break up, wanting to better himself, going to uni and finding himself and passions, getting raped and outed to his parents and subsequent aftermath in response to this sprinkled with other childhood and future tense elements too). I believe this format is executed really well and despite it flipping through time it definitely flows and is easy to follow.
I wouldn’t say there was anything I disliked about this memoir only that there was some repetition in ideas which could have been omitted and did drag on a bit but nothing major. It was definitely difficult to read due to the nature of what happens to Garrard throughout the book, most notably being raped and then outed to his parents by someone he was beginning to form a great relationship with and how this heavily influenced his idea on ‘gay sex’ whether this was the ‘normal’ thing but eventually realising it for what it is. He also struggles with his mental health and suicidal thoughts but the main hard-hitting feeling that he’s constantly shown to experience is a sense of self-hate/loathing. This is super hard to read in small amounts but when it’s constant throughout the whole book… oof and it’s just so sad because he always feels like his gayness is wrong, it’s the work of the devil, it’s why bad things happen to him, it’s pushed him away from friends and family, it’s something he needs to hide, it’s the ‘stain’ on his family, it’s caused by a variety of things and many more thoughts are linked to his sexuality. Albeit a difficult read, I would still recommend it as it’s not only written well but it’s an important story to tell. The ex-gay movement is still working today with vulnerable people in conversion practices right now as you’re reading this and it’s not okay. This was truly brave of Garrard to share his story and thankfully he was able to get out of it. But even with the counselling sessions and 8 days in LIA, his time there has left a permanent mark on his life.
Wholeheartedly recommend this memoir to literally everybody - queer folks to understand relatable elements of life and recognise what is happening to those like us AND non queer people to know how these hateful ideologies are and how they can have such a lasting impact.
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Outing, Rape, Emotional abuse, Eating disorder, Homophobia, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, and Religious bigotry
Moderate: Alcoholism, Addiction, Domestic abuse, and Drug use
orchidd's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Rape, Homophobia, Outing, Religious bigotry, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Lesbophobia, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Suicide attempt, Pedophilia, Miscarriage, Cursing, Eating disorder, Gaslighting, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, and Addiction
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, and Drug use
mandi4886's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Religious bigotry, Sexual content, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Gaslighting, Rape, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, and Outing
Moderate: Sexual violence, Suicide attempt, Drug use, Miscarriage, Addiction, Alcohol, Confinement, Cursing, Ableism, Abandonment, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Pregnancy, Suicide, and Toxic friendship