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Contato de Emergência by Mary H.K. Choi

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annika_maree's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

 
 
This is probably one of the first romance books where i have bought the connection between the main characters

This book is about Sam and Penny, young adults with big dreams. When they meet and exchange phone numbers, making each other their emergency contact which evolves into constant texts and a friendship over their secrets they would never share in real life.

Tw for anxiety (panic attacks), depression, unavailable parents, rape/sexual assault and alcoholism

Key ideas
-I loved how realistic these characters were, Sam and Penny are not the most likeable characters, they are judgmental and pessimistic. These qualities just made me love them more.
-The conversations in this book between Sam and Penny were the most genuine and natural that i have ever read
-The author put parts of herself in the book which amplified our empathy for the characters and made them feel so much more real
-I loved the maturity, this is classed as ya which I feel as if it should be na/a, the characters are in college and have mature issues eg financial, pregnancy, drugs and alcohol
-both Penny and Sam’s voices felt distinct and i was rarely bored
-They had things going on outside of the romance which i believe had the perfect ratio (Pennys writing class and how what she wrote reflected how she felt and Sam and his ex girlfriend trouble as well as the bakery

Quotes
“Penny believed with her whole heart that there were moments - crucial instances - that defined who someone was going to be. There were clues or signs, and you didn't want to miss them.”

“I like knowing that you exist. It doesn’t make me feel any less lonely, because life is lonely, but it makes me feel a lot less alone.”

“Sam enjoyed texting Penny. They talked about work, sleep, food, random facts. It didn’t need to be anything important. Their last text had been what to eat for breakfast. Since Penny had seen him at his lowest, there was no reason to act cooler than he was. It felt easy.”

“Sam wanted to tell Penny everything. He wanted a record of his thoughts and feelings and stories to exist with her. Like a time capsule for this strange period of his life. With her, he felt less lonely. He hadn't even realised he was lonely. He hadn't let himself. “

“Does he say good morning to her in a way that is reassuring? To where it feels as if he is holding her hand for the entire rest of the day until he says good night?”

 

 

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crafts_writing's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

I found this book at an interesting time in my life: I'm a fairly new college student who hasn't read for fun in a couple of years. So, my reviewing skills might be a little rusty. But, I was excited to get back into reading again and this seemed like a good start for me.

Overall, I found this to be an enjoyable read. It's light-hearted but eventful with emotional scenes and multiple "side plots." Besides the basic synopsis, there wasn't much for a plotline, but there was a lot going on in this book: Penny's storyline, Sam's storyline, the mother's storyline, Judy's (and Mallory's) storyline, etc. In particular, I found myself loving the basic characterizations of each character but struggled to really get to know the side characters. I struggle to put it into words, but there was something missing from Judy and Mallory and later Andy's characterizations. It was hard to understand their motivations. Still, it was a minor flaw.

Other things I loved about this book: how easy of a read this book is. There were sections that were a little harder to read, but for the most part, this book flowed really nicely. I struggled a bit at the beginning because of how YA this story feels. The texting and references were silly and out of character, but once you get further in the book, you realize why. It becomes a bit more in character for them and the way they talk. But, I think this writing style would have been more appropriate with Penny being 15/16 and Sam being 17/18. If the writing style was different, this book could have easily been a new adult instead of a YA.
 
(Also, can we talk about the cover?! The hardcopy has a theme of light pink and gold, and the character art is beautiful!)

Another thing I loved is that some things didn't have perfect endings.
Sam's mother Brandie Rose toward the end still didn't care for her son, but Sam seemed to accept and be able to move on. I'm really glad Choi didn't try and resolve them after she ruined Sam's life. Lorriane's storyline as well. Sam was able to move on from her, albeit a bit suddenly in my opinion. I wish we got a little more in his head about her.


Some things I disliked: Sam's initial character. As a teenager, the "bad boy" type can really seem appealing, but as you get older, it looks like a giant red flag. Some of his actions and the way he reacted considering the seriousness of the situation were a bit off-putting.
The way he was almost excited to trap Lola was crazy to me. Of course, I understood his reasoning for wanting to have direction, but I think he should have been freaked out more. He got her pregnant despite knowing the relationship was basically one-sided. The whole pregnancy situation threw me for a loop, and I still don't know how I feel about the whole thing. I didn't particularly enjoy that section of the novel.


Another thing I disliked was generally the first section of the novel. This is the author's first-ever fiction book, and it feels a little bumpy at the beginning. Penny acted overly aggressive, and some of the lines are weird or out of place. I think Choi needed to tweak the beginning after finishing her novel and adjust the characters accordingly. Sure, it's character development, but the shifts from "I hate you" to "you're my friend now" characterizations were like a blink. (I'm looking at you, Mallory).

Why I disagree with some bad reviews: I see a lot of people not liking the writing style, and I think people forget this is a young adult novel. Although both main characters are over 18, the book's demographic is teenagers. Of course, the characters in a realistic fiction story are going to act like whiny teenagers! Because, well, they kind of are. Although, I can agree with people saying Penny's character at the beginning is a bit rude and standoff-ish (actually, there were several moments I got whiplash by how rude characters were!) To me at least, this fizzled out more towards the end.

Pros: it's a light-hearted read, genuinely really funny at times, has good connections between the love interests, as well as creative and unique lines. Really easy to read right through.
Cons: bumpy start, writing/characters are too immature for some people, questionable morals. 

Overall, I think it's a great read! If you're extra picky about your YA books seeming too immature, maybe skip this one. The language can come off as trying too hard for some people I've heard, and I can kind of see why. Otherwise, it's a semi-fast read and everything is nicely resolved.

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claireinhart's review against another edition

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emotional funny reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

I love how these characters were exactly who they are. Incredibly readable and relatable and heart flippy

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besohappily's review against another edition

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3.25

The first part of the story annoyed me incredibly. Especially Penny seemed very selfish and just tended to make me frustrated for no reason what so ever. After a while the story does get more engaging. I must say that some aspects seemed force. I would also and Sam as a character was quite simply the one better written out of the main two. 

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mya_love's review against another edition

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funny hopeful lighthearted slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.25


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jijireads's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted reflective relaxing slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

This book was so cute! No spoilers but the humor, the development, and the texting was just perfect. You really feel like you know the characters inside out by the end of the book so the ending feels so natural. The character interactions are realistic and relatable. If you enjoy emotional slow burns, it’s a must read.

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theklutzybibliophile's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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duhitaap's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

"Some people’s coping mechanisms were all about festering and secrecy and ruminating until you grew yourself a nice little tumor in your heart with a side of panic attack. Different strokes.”

Pretty enjoyable book to read. It's about Sam and Penny, who met in a not so cute way and after that they begin to text all the time. Their relationship is based on texting and they rarely meet irl, but are there for each other all the time. 

This book is told in dual perspectives, switching between Sam and Penny each chapter. I love that the romance is not focused on flirting all the time, but through their relationship and their texting, we get to see each characters' struggle. Like other Mary H.K. Choi book that I've read, the characters are flawed but in realistic way. 

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brikalb's review against another edition

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emotional funny medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5


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autumnemmy's review against another edition

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emotional funny medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

This book is witty and well paced! It was so easy to imagine the interactions between the main characters 

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