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Moderate: Alcoholism, Death, Medical content, Pandemic/Epidemic
Moderate: Pandemic/Epidemic
Minor: Cancer, Death, Death of parent
Graphic: Alcoholism, Death, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Pandemic/Epidemic
Personally, in most cases I'm not a big fan of miscommunication or in the case of this book the intentional sabotaging of a (potential) relationship over having a hard conversation. I also got a bit thrown off when the setting shifted to the pandemic. It turned out to be a great setting for the majority of the story, but it was a bit out of left field.
Graphic: Pandemic/Epidemic
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Death, Alcohol
Moderate: Death
Minor: Addiction, Cancer, Death of parent, Pregnancy
The way I think of this book is in 2 parts - 1st part being in 2018 before the pandemic and the 2nd part being 2020 in the pandemic. The first part of the book was incredibly strong. It was hilarious and had me laughing for hours. The second part of this book really hit the ground for me. It was just so slow and I was just waiting for it to pick back up again. I think the pandemic could have been completely removed from the second half and each story beat would have still worked.
I thought that while Sally was a bit "pick me" and annoying at times, she was a good character. I will say that while she's a writer, she still has some issues communicating. I wish she would have spoken her mind more and not shut down her feelings or ideas because of others.
Noah is cute. I also think he has some problem communicating but overall he's a golden retriever guy. I think the biggest problem I had with him was his lack of awareness for his privilege.
Graphic: Sexual content, Alcohol, Pandemic/Epidemic
Moderate: Death, Misogyny, Sexism
Moderate: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Terminal illness, Death of parent
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Alcohol
Moderate: Sexism, Sexual content
Minor: Death, Misogyny, Terminal illness, Grief, Stalking, Death of parent
Author: Curtis Sittenfeld
Genre: Romance
Rating: 2.75
Pub Date: April 4, 2023
T H R E E • W O R D S
Observant • Light • Clever
📖 S Y N O P S I S
Sally Milz is a sketch writer for "The Night Owls," the late-night live comedy show that airs each Saturday. With a couple of heartbreaks under her belt, she’s long abandoned the search for love, settling instead for the occasional hook-up, career success, and a close relationship with her stepfather to round out a satisfying life.
But when Sally’s friend and fellow writer Danny Horst begins dating Annabel, a glamorous actor who guest-hosted the show, he joins the not-so-exclusive group of talented but average-looking and even dorky men at the show—and in society at large—who’ve gotten romantically involved with incredibly beautiful and accomplished women. Sally channels her annoyance into a sketch called the "Danny Horst Rule," poking fun at this phenomenon while underscoring how unlikely it is that the reverse would ever happen for a woman.
Enter Noah Brewster, a pop music sensation with a reputation for dating models, who signed on as both host and musical guest for this week’s show. Dazzled by his charms, Sally hits it off with Noah instantly, and as they collaborate on one sketch after another, she begins to wonder whether there might actually be sparks flying. But this isn’t a romantic comedy; it’s real life. And in real life, someone like him would never date someone like her...right?
💭 T H O U G H T S
Well, well, well if Romantic Comedy isn't the first 2023 release where I fell complete victim to an intriguing title, catchy cover, and false marketing. This book was not on my radar until it started to pop up absolutely everywhere and was selected as a BOM pick. And I'll be the first one to admit it sounded promising - not the case!
What I like:
• characters in their 30s. It was a breath of fresh air to be introduced to more mature, thriving adults.
• a healthy romance. Sally and Noah's relationship felt mature with open communication, and a mutual respect and understanding for one another.
• the email corresponding. I am here for epistolary (in this case emails) novels every. single. time. As someone who communicates better in written form, I appreciate this aspect in a new relationship.
• the friendships. There are some seriously strong friendships sprinkled throughout and I liked these better than the actual romance.
What I didn't like:
• the chemistry. I definitely wasn't convinced. Maybe it was the structure. Maybe it was my lack of caring about the two characters involved. I'm really not sure. The romance definitely takes a back seat.
• the structure. There's a prologue, three 'chapters' and an epilogue divided over 300 pages. Even without doing the math, it's easy to tell those aren't really chapters! Each section jumped in time and it felt scrambled and rushed at times. It just didn't seem to work.
• it's not all that funny. A couple of funny lines from characters with cameo appearances and that's about it.
• the extensive detail. There's so much detail on the creative process and behind-the-scenes of working in the industry that I just didn't need or enjoy.
A solid plot idea but very poorly marketed and executed. Additionally, at this point in time I am just not sure I'm ready for novels with a focus on the pandemic as a central theme and plot. If you're looking for a book with romance and/or comedy this likely isn't it.
**Reminder to self: falling victim to the buzz surrounding books not already on your radar rarely works out.**
📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• SNL fans
• readers looking for a take on modern love
🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S
"It was a belated realization to have, but it occurred to me that perhaps this was how grown-up conversations worked—not that your communication didn’t falter, but that you both made good-faith attempts to rectify things after it had."
Graphic: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Sexual content
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cursing, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Sexism, Excrement, Medical content, Pregnancy, Alcohol, Pandemic/Epidemic
Minor: Cancer, Death, Grief, Death of parent
However, Sally kind of irritated me at times with all the self-sabotage during nice moments that were happening to her. I get why she did it, but girl. Come on. He's just trying to be nice!
The majority of the book was a veeeeeery detailed look into the behind-the-scenes of a week creating a show that's definitely not SNL. Now I love a good behind-the-scenes look and I found it super fascinating, but it almost went on a bit too long? Between that and the lack of traditional chapter breaks (there were only 4-5 chapters so they felt more like parts to me), it threw the pacing off for me. I appreciate a slow burn, but that almost made it too slow.
I also feel like the book didn't need to be partly set in the pandemic in order for it to still work. In fact, I might have preferred it without the pandemic. I don't know, it's like... I just lived it, so I don't want to be reading about it again?
Graphic: Sexual content, Pandemic/Epidemic
Moderate: Alcoholism, Death
Minor: Death of parent, Pregnancy