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jgrayreads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse and Gaslighting
Moderate: Misogyny
Minor: Miscarriage
salemander's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Police brutality, Suicide attempt, and Colonisation
mmccombs's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, and Religious bigotry
sbox's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Suicide, and Sexual harassment
internationalreads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Fire/Fire injury, Sexual harassment, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
Moderate: Pregnancy
Minor: Miscarriage
roguepages's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, and Violence
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Bullying, and Suicidal thoughts
barbarella85's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Violence, and Religious bigotry
Minor: Racism and Xenophobia
not_another_ana's review against another edition
4.0
After more than nineteen years, my father still could not see me. To him, nothing I wrote would ever matter. Poetry was the voice I had forged because for so long I had been voiceless; I had written every word because I wanted him to hear me. Now I knew he never would.
I find it tricky to cast judgement on a memoir. How can I sit here and judge what happens when it's not just plot but someone's actual life and experience, it feels voyeuristic. At the same time the author is handing me their life on a platter, is asking me to come and see and experience. In How to Say Babylon Safiya Sinclair presents us the story of her life growing up in Jamaica under the control of a domineering abusive father who used Rastafarianism to control and terrorize the family. We're taken on this journey to her childhood, her struggles and how she persevered and became an award winning poet. She also explains what Rastafarianism is, how it got started, what are the practices and beliefs, and how that affected her.
I could not put this down, I read it in four days. The prose is beautiful and fluid, you could probably infer her background as a poet. If you don't enjoy purple prose, this might not be a good fit for you, for me it worked because I felt like I was right there in her head with her as the events happened. And boy did things happen to her, this is a book that deals with such complex and heart wrenching abuse. Verbal abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse, at times it felt so heavy and anxiety inducing. I was at a roller coaster right before the drop, or a balloon inflating with no sign of stopping and then... Well the drop didn't happen, the balloon never popped.
That was my only real issue with the book. The pacing brught us to this dazzling height only to gently let us down. To me it felt like perhaps she could have waited to write this memoir, there were a lot of painful memories she had to face and put to paper and the more recent ones just didn't come across as robust as the past. By this I mean I felt like she's too close to the point in time where her book ends to have been able to pull it apart and analyze it, process it. There's a lot of silence at the end, like the story was cherry-picked in some spots.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Religious bigotry, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Cursing, Infidelity, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, and Colonisation
hellolucireads's review against another edition
It was engaging but I just got tired of reading it, to be honest. Maybe because it was challenging and upsetting for me.
I read a summary of how everything turned out at the end - just to see if there was a light at the end of it!
I didn’t know about Rastafarian culture before, and learned so much from her lens. I’d still recommend it even though I didn’t finish!
Graphic: Child abuse, Misogyny, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Bullying
Minor: Self harm
solenodon's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, and Classism
Moderate: Suicide, Pregnancy, Sexual harassment, and Colonisation
Minor: Infidelity, Miscarriage, and Sexual content