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the_true_monroe's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Racism, Sexual assault, Pedophilia, and Violence
Moderate: Sexual content, Transphobia, Cultural appropriation, Injury/Injury detail, Death, Outing, Homophobia, Terminal illness, and Cancer
Minor: Slavery, Misogyny, Deadnaming, and Murder
grboph's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Death, Pedophilia, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Violence, Grief, Homophobia, Racial slurs, and Incest
Moderate: Chronic illness, Alcohol, Drug use, Bullying, Cursing, Deadnaming, Dysphoria, Medical content, Cancer, Outing, and Mental illness
Minor: Addiction and Injury/Injury detail
mme_carton's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Cursing, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Drug abuse, Grief, Homophobia, Incest, Injury/Injury detail, Racism, Violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, Terminal illness, Chronic illness, Blood, Bullying, Cancer, and Transphobia
Moderate: Alcohol, Cultural appropriation, Outing, and Mental illness
Minor: Fire/Fire injury
amandas_bookshelf's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Racism, Cursing, Death, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Transphobia, Violence, Bullying, Child abuse, and Incest
Moderate: Alcohol, Drug use, Cultural appropriation, and Cancer
rosietoast's review
4.0
Graphic: Incest, Sexual content, and Violence
Moderate: Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, and Bullying
bandysbooks's review
5.0
Graphic: Bullying, Homophobia, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Racism, and Hate crime
katsbooks's review against another edition
4.5
"Navigating in a space that questions your humanity isn't really living at all. It's existing. We all deserve more than just the ability to exist."
"American history is truly the greatest fable ever written."
"Knowledge is your sharpest weapon in a world that is hell-bent on telling you stories that are simply not true."
I always feel weird rating memoirs so take my star rating with a grain of salt. The strangeness lies in giving a star rating to someone's life. Like, how can I do that? So my rating is mostly based on social content and writing style.
I loved a lot of things about this book. I really like that it is written in a way that is accessible to teenagers. It is clear and concise in it's messaging while also being personal and impactful. It also doesn't shy away from tough topics. The author often addresses the sentiment that he wants this book to serve as an example of queer, Black human existing and thriving as a full human with a lifetime of positive and negative experiences. I especially appreciated the chapters on his school experiences. As an educator, it's always good to hear students have experienced the school system.
My only major critique is that tone of the writing felt... immature? I'm not sure if that's the verbiage I want to use but I got the feeling sometimes that I was reading an essay from one of my high school students. That being said, though, it's meant for high school students so I can definitely understand if that was done on purpose.
Graphic: Dysphoria, Misogyny, Police brutality, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Violence
Moderate: Bullying, Deadnaming, Racial slurs, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Addiction, Cursing, Drug use, Outing, Terminal illness, Alcohol, Death, and Transphobia
monalyisha's review against another edition
3.75
Though it feels crummy to say, I didn’t think I was going to like the book at first. The writing, when it’s not erudite in tone, is conversational and it needs sharper editing (the word “though” is vastly overused, for instance). Johnson’s vocal performance is also a bit stumbling. I settled in, however, and I think their goal is accomplished: providing a (sometimes embarrassing) warm, honest, and candid account of life for people who are often ignored. Johnson’s goal is to be a mirror and they shine.
The chapter “Losing My Virginity Twice,” which includes an impassioned call for better — and inclusive!!!— sexual education in America, is vital. Johnson carefully highlights the very real damage that can be (and IS) done by leaving kids ignorant and concurrently teaching them shame. They provide concrete examples from their own life. It’s sometimes difficult to hear but it’s also nigh-impossible to ignore. There’s so much hurt (physical and mental) that doesn’t need to happen, and Johnson leaves us feeling that we can all do better - and that it’s reasonable to work for change, and to hope.
Graphic: Outing, Injury/Injury detail, Toxic relationship, Suicidal thoughts, Racism, Sexual violence, Transphobia, and Terminal illness
krys_kilz's review against another edition
Graphic: Sexual content, Racism, Injury/Injury detail, Homophobia, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Death, Deadnaming, Transphobia, Grief, and Bullying
Minor: Mental illness and Drug use
matheo's review
4.25
Graphic: Bullying, Homophobia, Incest, Injury/Injury detail, Outing, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Transphobia, and Violence
Moderate: Blood, Cancer, Child abuse, Death, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Grief, Medical content, Pedophilia, Sexism, and Transphobia