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mari1532's review against another edition
4.5
Brief Summary: A memoir that explores the experience of a Black, Queer person growing up. Johnson provides essays about their life that include experiences navigating racism, homophobia, sex, love, and joy.
Thoughts: This is a beautifully written book. Johnson has such a clear understanding of how growing up can be such a difficult process and how learning to love yourself is truly the first step to an enlightened understanding of the world.
I really loved every essay that included stories of Johnson's grandmother. The love and admiration that they have for each other was so touching to read. I also think that it is so important that Johnson highlighted how their grandmother and others in their family may not have had a perfect response to the queer members of the family, but that their love for each other always came first and that love allowed for growth and acceptance on all sides.
I also appreciate the way that Johson discusses their sexual experiences. I think that even in a young adult book it is important to discuss topics like these because making them taboo makes it difficult for people to feel comfortable discussing the topic and asking questions.
Even if you are not a young adult this is a great book to read. It is beautifully and thoughtfully written. I would highly recommend this book
Graphic: Sexual assault, Transphobia, Racial slurs, Medical trauma, Incest, Homophobia, Bullying, Racism, Violence, Rape, and Deadnaming
Minor: Drug use and Alcohol
kjofalltrades's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Sexual content, Violence, Homophobia, Bullying, Sexual harassment, Sexual assault, Incest, Deadnaming, and Death
Moderate: Cancer, Outing, and Transphobia
Minor: Alcohol
garbagebarge69's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Homophobia and Sexual content
Moderate: Outing and Grief
Minor: Incest, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Violence, Rape, and Alcohol
readwithkel's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Sexual content, and Racism
Minor: Alcohol and Violence
callidoralblack's review against another edition
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship
Minor: Bullying, Cancer, Cursing, Death, Hate crime, Physical abuse, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Toxic friendship, Alcohol, Drug use, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Grief, Racial slurs, Medical content, and Racism
jenniferbbookdragon's review against another edition
4.5
Johnson describes his introduction to sex in college as difficult due to the lack of sex education for queer youth.
Their struggles with identity and sexuality are addressed in the context of a supportive family, something many young people lack. Johnson's story is one of strength and hope.
Graphic: Bullying, Sexual content, Homophobia, Racism, Alcohol, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Incest, Cultural appropriation, Deadnaming, and Drug use
Minor: Injury/Injury detail, Transphobia, Outing, Violence, and Blood
kaylasbewks's review
5.0
I think the majority fear becoming the minority, and so they will do anything and everything to protect their power.
As a Black queer person, I've died hundreds of times. Will likely die hundreds more times before my physical death. That is the lesson of death, though - from death comes rebirth. A rebirth in thinking, in processing, in living.
Graphic: Racism, Sexual assault, Homophobia, and Sexual content
Moderate: Drug use and Alcohol
jessspeake's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Incest, Homophobia, Racism, Bullying, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
Moderate: Death, Grief, Alcohol, Deadnaming, Medical content, Outing, Transphobia, and Violence
Minor: Blood
dannothedino's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Grief, Homophobia, Incest, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Mental illness, Adult/minor relationship, Bullying, Cursing, Racial slurs, Sexual content, and Violence
Moderate: Death, Drug use, Drug abuse, Alcohol, Cancer, Medical content, Outing, and Transphobia
Minor: Cultural appropriation, Colonisation, Slavery, and Police brutality
madisone's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Death, Homophobia, Deadnaming, and Violence
Moderate: Sexual content, Alcohol, Drug use, Incest, and Sexual assault