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makes me angry to know how many people still do not understand the plight of us, as women. i will never understand if they cannot see it or just turn a blind eye. Chimamanda's life seemed difficult but she is truly inspiring.

some of the lines that stole my heart :
Culture does not make people. People make culture. If it is true that the full humanity of women is not our culture, then we can and must make it our culture

The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing how we are. Imagine how much happier we would be, how much freer to be our true individual selves, if we didn’t have the weight of gender expectations.

Gender matters everywhere in the world. And I would like today to ask that we should begin to dream about and plan for a different world. A fairer world. A world of happier men and happier women who are truer to themselves. And this is how to start: we must raise our daughters differently. We must also raise our sons differently.

she finishes beautifully, My own definition of a feminist is a man or a woman who says, ‘Yes, there’s a problem with gender as it is today and we must fix it, we must do better.’

All of us, women and men, must do better

good pero nuy corto pero hermoso

I listened to this and I kept thinking “wow that was awesome, I want to write that down” every five seconds so basically you should just read/listen to it. audiobook is 45 minutes and I listened to it at 2.75x. loved that the author read it too!! so good and so important

This should be required reading.
reflective fast-paced

Ich kann mir vorstellen, dass das Buch zu der Zeit, zu der es rausgekommen ist bzw. der TED Talk stattgefunden hat, eine Wichtigkeit hatte. Heute sind wir meines Erachtens nach in feministischen Debatten deutlic  weiter. Die Autorin argumentiert u.a. biologistisch und sozialisationstheoretisch, welche beides meiner Ansicht nach überholte Konzepte sind.

Must-read!!

Ahhhhhhh so gooooood
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