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Disgrace by J.M. Coetzee

12 reviews

rendireads's review against another edition

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Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

This is a tricky one to rate. This book is very evocative. David is a deplorable character who leaves you with much to question yet forever remain without answers. I felt disgust very strongly. I also found the philosophical and anthropological musings to be quite rich. I found Lucy as frustrating as David did and do not understand why she made the choices she did after the attack. But there were also passages that were VERY boring. Particularly his writing scene. I found myself doing calculations to get me through the book — if I’ve read 60 pages and this book is around 200, I only need to do what I had already done two more times before I’m near the end — and that sort of thing. Even still, I know I will think about this book for a LONG time to come. And for that, it is a worth something.

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saskiahill's review against another edition

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Plot- or character-driven? Character
Loveable characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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celaeno's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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guardachuva's review

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challenging reflective tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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soupy_twist's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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surdiablo's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Where do I even begin... It's one of the most disturbing books I have read so far, which didn't even enter the gratuitous territory. As dark as it was, I was also intrigued by the premise, a cautious curiosity that turned into excruciating misery as the plot progressed, leaving me emotionally exhausted and numb by the end. The writing is simple but effective with good pacing, and there's a permanent sense of dread throughout the book which was well done. This book evoked such an abundance of discussions in our read-along, and I simply can't talk further about it without getting into spoilers, so it's best to stop reading here if you haven't read it.

We follow the POV of

David Lurie, an English professor in his 50s who loves seducing young women, especially his students, which sets the unsettling tone right from the beginning. We get to see his thought process in detail and also his fall from grace, how he keeps digging a hole for himself constantly with his actions. How he abuses that position of power over others and remains egotistic until there's a change of environment that puts him in a helpless spot, a rather severe reverse of his old circumstances theme-wise, which you may or may not sympathize with. The book also delves into post-apartheid South Africa so it offers a rather bleak insight into the social environment back then. David always felt like an outsider because of his interests and upbringing in general, which made him feel alienated in the city, and even more in the countryside. We see him struggle to deal with the injustices and his daughter Lucy's choices, which the reader may also have trouble accepting at first, but by the end, I found the entire arc of Lucy to be tragic. She's a traumatized woman who thinks she has no choices left or simply doesn't want to leave the place she loves. She submits to her fate just like the dogs that David held onto during their dying breath. As for David, he seeks solace in the poems he teaches and there are moments where we see the humanity in him come out. With the way the book ends, you can say he's on the road to redemption, although I couldn't bring myself to root for him regardless of his choices

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Ultimately, it's indeed a disgrace. The MC, the situation, and the society itself that normalized this moment, all of them are terrible. This book pulls no punches, wastes no words, and shows you the dark reality of life. It makes you question your values and leaves you very conflicted about what to feel regarding the MC, although I felt plenty of empathy for his daughter. I don't have more to say, it's just one of those books that leaves you broken. You can expect several triggering events like animal cruelty as well, so don't bother reading this if you are easily affected by such things.

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slowlychloe's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

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leonormsousa's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.0

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bingereading's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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librarymouse's review

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I have so many feelings and questions about this book. It's so beautifully written. I caught some of the extra detail in the book, but I know there are hundreds of details and references sewn into the book that I've missed on this first read through. One instance that was particularly impactful was the mention of verbena and jonquil on page 177 and pine on page 178, after his visit with the Isaacs. Their respective meanings of prayer or a request to pray for an individual; forgiveness or a desire that affection be returned; and endurance, piety, and hope in adversity add so much to the characterization of David, yet the description of flowers scenting the air fits so neatly into the scene setting that they could comfortably be ignored. David Lurie is intensely easy to dislike, yet there are instances in which he is not quite redeemed, but is humanized and brought out of his self-reflective/self centered stupor. He has a main character complex to the point of near delusion. Despite his continual fall towards lust, he does seem to learn something, though I'm not sure what. He learns loss and grief, learns that he is incapable of compromise in many ways but is capable of letting go of what he cannot control. Coetzee does a fantastic job with these characters and their individual and collective shames.

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