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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
sillyhily's review against another edition
i thought this book had so much to offer but i got very uncomfortable with the volume and delivery of the idea that the reader is a Christian. A big part of my codependency lies in my trauma from Christianity and the experiences i faced in and through the church and it just sucked to keep getting christianity jump scares when i’m trying to heal a part of myself that christianity had a large systemic part in creating. :/ if the 2022 version is any better pls let me know i had the 1992 publication since it was what was available at the used bookstore, but otherwise i think for now i don’t feel ready to take on the responsibility of finishing this since i’m not very deep into my healing journey from christianity, im just not at a place where i can just casually (not really casual in this book to be fair) be referred to openly as christian and not feel weird about it. If anyone has recommendations for books with the similar topic of codependency but authors who take more nuanced perspectives into account i’d love to hear them!
Content Warnings
Christianity References, Religious References, Author calls the reader “Christian’s” and many times refers to “God” and asks you to think of “God” in activities and such. It starts pretty mild but by the time I quit it was about a page and a half just about the Christian God. (I mean no offense to those practicing Christianity, I just wish someone had told me this before i bought the book and powered through 11 chapters.)
nic_hole42's review
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
sad
medium-paced
5.0
I can never thank the therapist that recommended this book to me enough. This book almost sat on my shelf for a decade before I actually opened it up and I am so glad I did. It made me reflect, cry, and just understand myself a little better. This truly has changed my life and the way I think about it.
vtruelove's review against another edition
informative
reflective
medium-paced
3.0
A great book to help define codependency and provide a basic level one understanding of where the term and the research came from. Can be helpful in identifying if you have codependent tendencies and what to do with that.
moment2shine's review
4.0
A great primer on aspects of codependency. A very helpful introduction to the topic. Focuses heavily on alcoholism as a driving factor, which may not be true for everyone seeking relief from codependent behaviors. Overall I enjoyed.