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The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger

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spectacles_and_books's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

This broke me, in the best way. And I will never watch an adaptation, because this was perfect.

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nienora's review against another edition

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reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.25

There's no reason for this to be as long as it is. Seriously, it could've ended like three times and it just continued on. Especially last part is just repeated scene for five times.

Henry and Claire are so annoyingly rich, and it shows in the way they talk and act. Sooo pretentious and annoying, they're horrible people.
Also, Claire is Catholic and it gets mentioned all the time. Abortus not being an option is said more than once. I can't decide is it trying to be critical of Catholic values or supports them.
Their relationship relies on you just accepting that they're destined for each other and love each other. Their whole 'chemistry' is that they grope each other any chance they get. They speak for barely 2 minutes and someone's hand wanders under shirt... I mean, they were fine when Claire is young but as soon as they meet up in present timeline it's just sex.

I know people say that Henry groomed Claire, but if anything, they groomed each other equally. Everything gets convoluted and mixed up when there's time travel involved. It asks is there a choice and free will or is everything already predestined to happen, so it will, undoubtedly, happen.

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agw622's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This is such a captivating book. The time traveling is well handled. The overlaps are used to add suspense especially at the end. It can be quite intense and sad at places. While not a happy read, it's an amazing read.

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valeria_balzan's review against another edition

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reflective relaxing slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

This book was alright. It had an awesome setup but I think it was missing some plot. I understand the book mostly centers about Claire and Henry and their "love story" but I did not care about them or the other characters at all (or what happened to them, for that matter.)

I feel like the author had great opportunities to push the limits of time travelling and how it can impact a person's Henry's life but he is just boring and hates this ability.

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naledi's review against another edition

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  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No

4.0

[spoilers]
The Time Traveler's Wife is a beautifully written romance. At first glance, Henry being a time traveler seems almost cool, but as the book progresses, one realises that it is the tragedy of his romance with Clare. He is always leaving and she is always waiting.  Henry's life is an incredibly sad tale - he sometimes knows the future and visits the past but in even the most tragic circumstances, cannot interfere.  In this way, he is a slave to inevitability and Niffenger beautifully articulates the pain of this, especially as his death approaches. Henry knows his death is coming, down to the day, and he must suffer it still because that is his fate. I admire that Niffenger did not make Henry above his humanness and expressed that as his death approached he was afraid, he didn't want to go. It is made very clear that his time-traveling abilities are no gift, but rather a prison.

Not a lot of attention is given to Clare as an individual, she is written as an accessory to Henry, having few thoughts that do not pertain to him. Even when he is gone, she is always anticipating his return. The only part of the book that felt like this is about Clare, was the miscarriages, but even still, very little air time is given to how she feels about them, and how she dealt with the loss. More could have been said. She also does not have a social life, and even when she is working, she is thinking of him.  Although Charisse is her friend, there is no scene with just them two, as there is with Henry & Gomez for example.  It is sad to witness that Clare is always waiting for Henry, and the worst of it is when she is 82, waiting for him still. Henry lives his life, only meeting Clare at 28. But Clare's life has been a game of waiting and that is all she has ever known, all she ever will know. The present life she lives with Henry is hardly equatable to the waiting she does and this causes one to feel incredible sympathy for Clare, because who is she outside of being the time traveler's wife?  
 
Criticisms:  
This book had the potential to be a 5, but I felt a great deal of unease in the parts where Clare is between 6-18 and Henry is visiting her from his late 30s and early 40s. What is more disturbing is that although he is old, he still looks at her longingly. There is a part where she is 12, and he is about 42, and he considers kissing her, and reconciles with himself that 12 is too young. Furthermore,  I lack understanding of his actions because he was already living his adult life with Clare, he had no reason to lust for a child, he could kiss his wife when he went back home. I also did not like how Niffenger wrote the characters of color. Nell, the cook for Clare's family, speaks in broken English and not only was this stereotypical, but it was unnecessary and unproductive to the overall plot. 

Closing thoughts : 
Reading this book it is hard to determine whether these two characters even chose each other at all. Henry appears from the future when Clare is young and most impressionable and announces himself as her husband, and that is decided. Equally, when Henry is 28, Clare meets Henry and announces herself as his future lover. We don't see a time of Henry actually getting to know Clare, and their biggest bond is that she knows he's a traveler and he is comforted by this. He dumps Ingrid, not because he really was over her or that he liked Clare more, but because Clare showed up from his future-past. And so it is clear that a great question this book confronts is that of autonomy, of free will. Who chooses, what is decided, and do we have a say in any of it?

The Time Traveler's Wife is a beautiful story that I recommend to anyone who would not be triggered by the aforementioned criticisms. 

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passionatereader78's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional mysterious sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Wonderfully written book! I enjoyed this exploration of time travel. I loved the relationship between Claire and Henry. There is so much heat in theses pages! I love the way the story was easy to follow. The time jumps were uncomplicated and I could follow the plot. I loved everything about this book!
This is Henry and Claire's beautifully complicated love story!

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tessa52's review against another edition

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emotional mysterious medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0


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souvraya's review against another edition

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dark emotional mysterious sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

I quite liked the first half of the book up to the wedding, but then enjoyed it less and less. It's a really interesting concept, often well-executed and the non-linear storytelling worked well. It was particularly interesting to see characters interacting in a variety of stages of their lives.

Now for the problems. The second and third part of the book get increasingly depressing in a way that felt like traumatising events were being being piled on for no reason. The characters barely have time to react to each of these events so they don't feel fully developed, just added in for shock value.

It was very disappointing how little agency and personality the titular wife had. Clare was interesting to read about as a child, then she became much more bland as an adult. It was really all about Henry, so naming the book after Clare is not representative of the role she takes.

Another disappointment was that a lot of characters' shitty behaviour has no repercussions whatsoever, Gomez and Celia especially rubbed me the wrong way. It doesn't get called out, nobody reacts to it, and it often doesn't cause any problems. When that happens too often, it feels very unsatisfying to me and when it happens with the main characters it calls their romance into question.

Even worse, there was a major part of the story later on, that consumed some of the characters completely for a long time, and then it suddenly turned into an afterthought. It seems that the author didn't know what to do with Alba as a character, so she was simply turned into a Mary Sue that's somehow immune to all of the aforementioned trauma. It's very unrealistic to think of what she goes through, yet no one seems to care about her and she continues to be quite happy-go-lucky.

Some of the time traveling concepts fell apart towards the end, with several aspects that should have been relevant being swept under the table. There's no real or implied resolution to what might be causing it, whether there will be more time travelers in the future, how society treats them, etc. With these topics ignored, it only barely fits into the sci-fi genre. It's really more a romance with a quirky setting.

Finally, there was some really out-of-touch racism and social commentary at times. POC, queer and disabled characters were handled terribly and I was especially weirded out by the term "Auschwitz thin" and a character's insistence that an adopted child wouldn't really be theirs, especially because nobody offered an alternative opinion on that statement. The book really needed more editing to cut out all of that.

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val_theburrowofstories's review against another edition

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emotional mysterious sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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lizzye33's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional hopeful inspiring lighthearted mysterious reflective relaxing sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.25


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