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thebookmarkedmama's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Racial slurs and Racism
Minor: Infertility and Miscarriage
ksbooknook's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Moderate: Infertility, Miscarriage, Racism, Blood, Police brutality, and Murder
readingwithtaco's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Moderate: Racial slurs
Minor: Infertility and Miscarriage
ramenfuneral's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Moderate: Child death, Gun violence, Hate crime, Infertility, Racism, Dementia, and Pregnancy
kkm0112's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.5
Graphic: Racial slurs and Racism
Moderate: Infertility
desertmountainreads's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Child death, Death, Gun violence, Infertility, Miscarriage, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Police brutality, Medical trauma, Murder, and Pregnancy
kelly_e's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Author: Christine Pride & Jo Piazza
Genre: Contemporary Fiction
Rating: 4.5
Pub Date: October 5, 2021
T H R E E • W O R D S
Timely • Intuitive • Authentic
📖 S Y N O P S I S
Jen, a white pregnant wife of a police officer, and Riley, a Black female reporter, have been best friends since childhood. However, one event is about to test their lifelong bond: Jen's husband, Kevin, is involved in a shooting of an unarmed Black teenager. Each woman's life is about to change forever. When Riley is asked to cover the story, she knows this could be here big break. Meanwhile, Jen is devastated and contemplating a future where Kevin goes to jail. A story of friendship, love, race, forgiveness, justice, hope, and redemption.
💭 T H O U G H T S
This book wasn't on my radar until I received it in my Fall It's A Good Day Book Box, which is surprising given it was chosen as a GMA book club selection. When I first saw the cover I gasped, and what this book holds within its pages is a timely, tender, and immersive story told in alternating perspectives. It opens up so many questions in the debate on policing and justice, race and having hard conversations, and the changing dynamics of friendship. I've read various fiction books about racial injustice, but never one like this.
One of the things I found so compulsive is how based in reality it felt, and as a white woman, it most definitely made me feel uncomfortable, which it should. It raised so many questions that made me think and hypothesize, as well as, opened up so much discussion - all signs of a great book!
It's hard to believe We Are Not Like Them is written by a duo, as the writing is provocative and engaging. The alternating perspectives was the perfect fit. And for me this story really went beyond just the topic of race, but the power of speaking up and truly listening in all aspects of life. There were times when I felt grief echoed in a lot of the prose.
We Are Not Like Them covers a lot of ground, and it's a journey worth taking as you attempt to put yourself into another person's shoes and contemplate what you would do in the same situation. It's a story I won't soon forget. This book is designed to make you think, make you uncomfortable, and spark conversations, and it does all of that and more. I'm definitely looking forward to seeing where they go next, as I know they're working on their next novel.
📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• fans of Small Great Things
• readers who want something reflective
• book clubs
🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S
"It kills me how some people want so badly to believe racism is buried beneath layers of history, "ancient history," they say. But it's not. It's like an umpire brushing the thinnest layer of dirt off home plate: it's right there. Only too often the trauma, the toll of it, remains unknown generation after generation."
"There are no easy choices, no safe choices, you can't plan your way to happiness."
"It comes in waves, moments like these, a sense of hopelessness so strong it steals her breath. The sense that no one will understand and nothing will ever change."
"It's the one thing she appreciates about this letter. He doesn't try to justify himself. Some things can't be justified. Still, the letter won't bring peace or closure. Nothing will. But on a good day, when the sun is shining and when her memories of her son are the strongest, when she feels him in the room with her, on those days, she lets herself believe that maybe, just maybe, there's a world in which another mother won't have to go through this pain."
Graphic: Child death, Death, Infertility, Racism, Police brutality, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Infertility and Suicide
Minor: Gun violence and Miscarriage
hangingashhearddwrites's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
4.25
Graphic: Child death, Infertility, Racial slurs, Racism, and Grief
Moderate: Miscarriage, Pedophilia, and Pregnancy
serendipitysbooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
My reaction to this book is mixed at best. The plot and dialogue felt really artificial and contrived, as if the authors wanted to educate white readers on issues of race and police brutality. It often reads like an educational primer on current race issues in the US. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, although the fact that there are still people who aren’t aware of these issues is a little mind boggling. The friendship between Riley and Jen never felt believable in the present. I can see how they had been close in the past, but any friendship felt based more on nostalgia than present reality. I felt Riley as a character was strong and well-written. I loved that she was a successful career woman who had overcome the odds. While I sympathised with Jen for her fertility struggles and for suffering as a result of her husband’s actions, she irritated me due to her self-centredness. I wasn’t convinced that she or her husband ever fully understood the nature and extent of racism and the role it played in the shooting. Any regret they felt seemed as much for how it had impacted them as for the victim and his family.
I found this book pretty uneven. Sometime sections held my interest (chiefly Riley’s storyline) while others irritated me or left my mind wandering. The ending also felt too tidy and convenient - palatable for a white audience rather than reality based.
If this novel inspires conversation and reflection that actually leads to anti-racism actions from its white readers that will be great. For me it mostly missed the mark and left me wanting something meatier and harder hitting.
Graphic: Racism and Police brutality
Moderate: Infertility
rishel's review against another edition
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Racism, Police brutality, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Infertility, Miscarriage, and Racial slurs
Minor: Grief