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narbine's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Alcoholism, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Classism
Moderate: Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Gun violence, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Abandonment, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Body shaming, Infidelity, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Excrement, Stalking, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment, and Dysphoria
marissaam12's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Body shaming and Death of parent
Minor: Animal death
mirajuliee's review against another edition
4.0
(also, and i don’t know if this was just my version of the book but it had tons of spelling mistakes/random misplaced letters which distracted a lot while reading)
Graphic: Ableism, Addiction, Bullying, Cursing, Racial slurs, Blood, Medical content, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Animal death
luckyonesoph's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Blood, Excrement, Grief, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Fatphobia and Death of parent
shieldbearer's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Ableism, Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexism, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Violence, Religious bigotry, Fire/Fire injury, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Classism
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child death, Domestic abuse, Incest, Pedophilia, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, and Cultural appropriation
Minor: Homophobia, Infidelity, Transphobia, and Excrement
mandi4886's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Addiction, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Body horror, Body shaming, Bullying, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Infidelity, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Sexual harassment, and Classism
Minor: Drug abuse, Drug use, Gun violence, Hate crime, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Excrement, Vomit, Trafficking, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, and Toxic friendship
ingridbergman's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child abuse, and Violence
Moderate: Animal death, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Fire/Fire injury, and Sexual harassment
sophicat's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual assault, Excrement, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Classism
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Pedophilia, Rape, Violence, Blood, Grief, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Minor: Gun violence and Pregnancy
ashleycmms's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Body horror, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Death, Gun violence, Blood, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcohol
Moderate: Homophobia, Incest, Pedophilia, Racial slurs, Sexism, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, Pregnancy, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Infidelity and Murder
annemaries_shelves's review against another edition
5.0
Walls has an incredibly rich talent for story-telling and displays immense vulnerability in sharing her family's story.
Reading this 10 years after I first learned about it, I have more empathy for the parents and a better ability to understand the nuances and grey zones of parent-child relationships, the circumstances that lead to unstable, unsafe, and neglectful households, and the sheer luck it takes to dig yourself out of systemic poverty the way the Walls children did.
That said, her parents are terrible parents in a lot of ways. You can tell they love their children and want to install certain values like independent thinking, self-reliance, and others. But this often comes at the cost of healthcare, safety, job and financial security, and others risks. While her parents clearly have some mental health issues and substance use disorders to varying degrees (though she doesn't speculate on this) a lot of the circumstances the Walls found themselves in were entirely preventable and manageable. And that infuriates me.
I loved reading about the siblings' dynamics and their resourcefulness and determination to make the best of things - and get the hell out of Welch when they no longer could. I'd especially love to read Lori's story one day - she seems to have a unique experience within the family and I think it could resonate with a lot of people (or maybe it's just oldest children relatability for me).
I have two main critiques that could bring my rating down 0.5 stars (but won't because I loved the experience of reading this memoir to much).
1) The pacing was slightly off in the second half. Jeannette Walls devotes so much time to her early childhood, that we often skip significant portions of her teen years and young adulthood. She only discusses the highlights as compared to the substantial exploration of her childhood and set-up of their family dynamics.
2) Being published in 2005 and set largely in the 60s and 70s there is some outdated language. This includes the R-word and racial slurs.
Overall this is a wonderful and emotional memoir - I can understand why and how it's become a classic in the genre.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Racial slurs, Blood, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Ableism and Misogyny