informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

While this memoir recounts the author's journey to become the first trans man to fight at Madison Square Garden (for a charity event), this is not a story about boxing. It relies on his experience training to question what makes a man a man.

He starts perceiving his reality full of the privilege men have when passing as cis. He questions what drives men to resort to violence when in the face of a problem. He interviews experts on gender to understand masculinity in the society we live in.

Great insight for people transitioning (or born in) to masculinity. 

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goldenjunegem's review

4.5
reflective fast-paced

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challenging emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced

I’m glad that I read this book, and hope to have my husband read it as well. I am a transman myself and am curious to see how differently the book is taken in by my Cis husband. This is a book I will probably read a couple times as I work through my own journey of what it means to me to be a man. 

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queertrash's review

5.0
emotional informative inspiring reflective tense medium-paced

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smellie_reads's review

4.5
adventurous emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

An incredibly thoughtful book that helped me empathize with men in a way I have always had trouble accessing. Seamlessly integrates gender theory, but that's sort of a background for the really compelling relationships and visceral meditations on taking ownership of one's body. 

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emfass's review

5.0
challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

This was a Family Book Club read, suggested by my youngest sibling. I'm not sure I ever would have picked it up on my own, but wow. Wow wow wow. This is a wondrous, vulnerable, thought-provoking exploration of gender, masculinity, violence, loss, and self-actualization. Highly highly recommended.

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