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lanid's review
Moderate: Hate crime, Physical abuse, Alcoholism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Child abuse, Death, Domestic abuse, Bullying, Child death, Pedophilia, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Racism, and Rape
Minor: Misogyny, Suicidal thoughts, Drug use, Bullying, Fire/Fire injury, Violence, and Toxic relationship
lydiabeingalive's review against another edition
4.75
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liralen's review against another edition
4.0
Different images come to my mind when I remember my experience of coming out. Some days I felt like I was unzipping a layer of unwanted skin, and shedding it from my body like a snake, so I could move freely for the first time. Other days I felt as if I was coming out of a dark prison cell into sunlight. And then there were days I saw myself as a piece of a jigsaw puzzle that, until then, had been forced into the wrong spaces, even into the wrong puzzle. But at last I had found the right puzzle, and I fit very well. (142)
It took me a while to get into this, because the telling is a little dry—one event after another, not a lot by way of full scenes or detailed descriptions.
But.
The farther I read, the more sense it made. There is so much here. She's lived more life than many, and there's a lot of hard material in here. To tell it all in full would take hundreds more pages. This isn't a memoir that builds those individual pictures, but what it does do is tell one hell of a story of a woman who fought and fought to build herself a life that was right for herself and to help others. Again: there is so much in here, good and bad. Being First Nations and growing up with a grandmother and seeing violence and alcoholism in the community. Being married off young. Abuse. Children and hard births (think spending hours on a sled to get to hospital) and loss. More abuse. More loss. Alcoholism and poverty and friendship and fostering and getting back on her feet. Coming out in a community that did not understand lesbianism. Violence. Vision loss. Finding ways to put those puzzle pieces together.
As a book, it's not amazing, but as a story, it's worth a read. It's a lot, but an important lot.
krissyronan's review against another edition
4.0
Thank you to the University of Manitoba Press and Libro.fm for the audio copy.
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nodogsonthemoon's review against another edition
4.75
Moderate: Pedophilia, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual harassment, Torture, Violence, Sexual violence, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Addiction, Death, Drug use, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Alcohol, Child abuse, Child death, Chronic illness, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, and Sexual assault
mielenmaisemia's review against another edition
5.0
sarmcp's review against another edition
5.0
arrr's review against another edition
5.0