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Meet Cute Diary by Emery Lee

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kp_writ's review

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funny lighthearted slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75


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hannahmayhere's review

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hopeful inspiring lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I really enjoyed this book! It has incredible representation. Loved another story with a trans MC. Loved a secondary character who is non-binary and trying to figure out the best pronouns and loved seeing ey/em/eir pronouns being used and normalized! Asexual representation! And lots of great anxiety representation. I also really appreciated the other character’s responses to changing of pronouns, asexuality, and anxiety. A great model of how others should react in those situations. :) 

The MC is 16 and is a little immature at times, but he has these lots of shining moments and does a lot of growing throughout the book. 

Even though I knew exactly where this plot was going, I still absolutely adored this book. I loved the representation and the arc and it was a great read of trans joy!! Looking forward to more books to come from the author! 

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wordwilderness's review

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emotional hopeful medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

 
I picked this book up hoping for a cute romance and got exactly what I wanted. The tone of Meet Cute Diary was light and comical, but there was an underlying vulnerability woven into the narrative. Lee writes with such love for the trans community and touches on how transphobia impacts trans people’s ability to see themselves as worthy of love.

Noah was a delightful protagonist to follow. He could be selfish and a bit snarky, but it was obvious he felt deeply. I had so much fun fantasizing with Noah about the perfect meet-cute. It reminded me of how I thought about dating and relationships when I was 16. Romantic comedies are as much about individual growth as they are about romance, so I loved getting to see Noah grow as a character.

I also loved how Noah’s blog was integrated into the story. Lee effortlessly shows the pressure to have the perfect life that comes from social media while also showing how it can be used as a tool for good. As a trans boy, Noah didn’t see himself portrayed as desirable in love stories. He uses his blog, the Meet Cute Diary, both as a way to create a better reality for himself and to give hope to other trans people. When the troll exposed the blog as fiction, I felt torn about what I wanted for Noah. I could see how much the Meet Cute Diary meant to him, but I also wanted him to focus more on his reality. I loved how Lee showed the conflict between needing some form of escapism and the damage we can inflict when we become too absorbed in our own worlds.

The romance in Meet Cute Diary was definitely as cute as you’d expect. The connection between the characters was subtle at first, and their growth as a couple felt very natural. I loved how [redacted] brought out the best in Noah. The unquestionably kind love interest was a refreshing change from the typical dark and mysterious YA love interests. This was one of those love stories that left me feeling all the warm and fuzzy feelings.

The only issue I had with this book was that the ending was too long. I got bored during the last couple of chapters and think the ending could have wrapped up quicker. But, overall this was a cute, fun read that I’d recommend to any fan of romcoms.

Thank you to the author, Emery Lee, for my gifted copy. This does not affect my opinion of the book.

 

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frankireads's review

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hopeful medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

what worked for me: the relationship between devin and noah is really strong throughout, even at the beginning when noah’s in his “ugh i don’t want to work and i don’t want to be friends with this person who puked on me” phase. i think i just ultimately really liked devin as a character? e was really earnest, didn’t really play into noah trying to start fights, and was generally more enjoyable than more of the cast (unfortunately). i also liked that noah gave em space to try out different pronouns and see what worked best for them. it’s moment like this that were really the strongest parts of the book--when noah shined best was when he was supporting his friends and listening to them, like a good friend should. oh, and i really enjoyed reading a book about a trans character that wasn’t like...riddled with transphobia. the problems were not being of noah’s transness (or his triracial identity), but situational things, and i really enjoyed not having to brace myself for dread every other minute.

what didn’t work for me: the tone of the book in noah’s pov read a bit too young on the ya side of things for me, which is totally fine! i know i’m probably not the intended audience here. however, a side effect of this was that noah came off way more self-centered and i don’t feel it was resolved well-enough in the end. that, and
the entirety of his relationship with drew was just. augh. was literally cheering along with his best friend when they broke up. i also hated there was no real closure to it? drew lied to him about something fairly big and i get it, you can just not have closure with relationships, it happens, but for this to be the romance that was marketed on the book as well the central focus for 3/4th of the book...
it fell flat for me, and made the ending feel rushed.

to read or not to read: honestly, if you’re not in the target demographic you might not have the intended view of this book, which at its core is a very sweet message of living one’s truth and finding happiness despite. i don’t regret reading this book, but i don’t think i’d read it again? still, i’d be willing to check out whatever emery writes next. 


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ramunepocky's review

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emotional hopeful reflective
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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emilyr's review

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lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0

The story starts with a trans boy writing fake anonymous "Meet Cute" stories on his Tumblr as a way to create the trans love stories he wants to see in the world. He's determined to create his own Meet Cute to Happily Ever After story and at first it seems like everything is going to plan, until, of course, people aren't everything he hoped. It's an interesting premise, but it was hard to find anyone in the story to root for. The main character Noah seems to be in a perpetually bad mood and doesn't really seem to learn much throughout the novel.
When his relationship with Devin turns from friendship to more, I wished they stayed just friends. It seems like Noah is diving right in expecting another perfect romance even though he acknowledges he barely knows anything about Devin. It also seemed like so many people turned out to be villains in a way that didn't really advance the plot, but we also never got any explanation about the trolls attacking the blog even though the blog was supposed to be such a main thread throughout the novel?
Overall, it was an interesting premise with a lot of messy, interesting, diverse characters. 

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utopiastateofmind's review

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  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.0

(Disclaimer: I received this book from the publisher. This has not impacted my review which is unbiased and honest.)

 I've been looking forward to Meet Cute Diary since it was announced. A story about transjoy, hope in stories, and the importance of not getting wrapped up in what we think should be. As someone who's never had a meet cute, the idea of reading a blog about queer meet cutes sounds like a dream come true. From the beginning, I loved how Meet Cute Diary celebrates the idea that we sometimes have to manifest the stories we wish we could see, that there's power in knowing a happy ending exists for people like us.

Lee's debut only continues examining this line between hope and fiction by introducing fake dating into the mix! For Noah, where is the line between belief and truth? I adored the romcom vibes and Noah was a character that felt endearing and relatable. Because Noah, flaws, mistakes, and all, remains endearing in the ways he's trying. How he wants to not let people down, how he is so focused on a plan for falling in love. And yet, as readers, we see how there's no plan that can prepare us, that we can follow, and that when we become caught up in one, we miss the moments around us.


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betweentheshelves's review

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hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

 Thanks to HarperCollins and NetGalley for an advanced copy of this to review! It was just the meet cute romance that I needed as the weather gets warmer. While it has a few flaws, I absolutely flew through this book!

Yes, enemies to lovers is my favorite trope, but fake dating might become a close second! Especially fake dating that leads to real relationships. While the trajectory of the relationship was a bit predictable, I enjoyed seeing Noah get to fall in love and experience traditional romance tropes. It's great to have such a happy, upbeat book for a trans main character!

Noah's friendship with Devin is probably one of the best things about this book. Devin is questioning eir gender and pronouns, and e and Noah have some great conversations about it. For a teen who is also questioning their gender, seeing this play out on a page with a character who changes eir pronouns with a friend who just rolls with the punches? Priceless. Much needed representation.

That being said, Noah isn't the most likeable main character. He has a lot of maturing to do, which makes sense because he's 16! But he has a lot of great support around him, people who are incredibly patient. And his brother! I loved getting to see his support in the book and to have him stand up for Noah at points, too. I would have a loved a little more growth from Noah in the book, but by the end, you can definitely tell that he's headed in the right direction.

All in all, if you're looking for a swoon worthy rom-com, this one is for you! Emery Lee is definitely one to keep an eye on. 
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This has a lot of great things going for it, with a few flaws along the way. Mostly here for the side characters, as they definitely helped carry the story. Stay tuned for a full review later this week!

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fromjuliereads's review

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

**Thank you to Harper Collins Canada for an advanced digital copy in exchange for an honest review.**

This book was really good! I ended up reading it in one day... which is not very common for me! It was an easy read, even though it deals with some more difficult topics. But all of the difficult subjects were handled well and with care, in my opinion. I laughed out loud, groaned from second hand embarrassment at the cringe-y sections, and even teared up at one point! There were so many things that I really loved about this book! I am not going to attempt to comment on the transgender or nonbinary representation in the book, as that is not my place. Please look for reviews from transgender and nonbinary readers to comment on the rep!

Let me quickly start with why I felt like I couldn't give this book 5 stars. The biggest thing that I had an issue with was that the main character, Noah, came across as the stereotypical surly teenager through 2/3 of the book. I honestly don't feel like I had enough character development for Noah in some ways. I can tell you multiple things that Noah hates - his brother's girlfriend, hiking and exercise, kids, and many other things. Really, the only thing that I got that Noah likes is romance and Tumblr... and an off hand comment about liking manga at the beginning... that's it? I just think that his character could have been developed a bit more in that way. Honestly, a lot of aspects of Noah's character came off pretty negative and selfish for a majority of the book.  And while I didn't dislike Noah, I did find myself a bit annoyed at points.  BUT I will say that the character growth that happened and the revelations that occurred further into the book were really well done!
Also, while I love a happily ever after, there was one aspect that seemed a little too convenient to the end... but that's more me being picky than anything! I still really loved the ending :)

Anyways! There were so many other aspects of this book that I really liked! I loved the portrayal that we had of Noah's relationship with his brother, Brian. The scenes at the camp were so much fun! The initial day at the camp - such a good scene!!! I loved that so much and how it became kind of this turning point. And Devin was such a fantastic character! I also really appreciate the panic attack/anxiety rep. As someone who has had panic attacks, it's really nice to see them written about in a more realistic way. I like that Noah didn't know what to do and it was a struggle to help in the situation, but it was all done so well in a realistic portrayal of an ACTUAL situation for someone with a panic attack and someone seeing one for the first time. As I mentioned above, I liked the character growth that happened for Noah in all of the different ways that it came together for him to better understand himself and the people around him in the end. It was really well done!
I enjoyed the format where text messages and Tumblr posts/comments were integrated into the text! As someone who went through a Tumblr stage (and still sneaks onto it sometimes), it's so much fun to see blogging included in a story! It was integrated in a really fantastic way and a great set up for this fake dating story!

I'm hoping this doesn't come across as a spoiler, but if you are looking for some LGBTQIA+ rep with the fake dating AND enemies to lovers tropes, definitely check this book out! It was a great read and I hope a lot of people will enjoy it! I will mention to PLEASE check the trigger warnings before venturing into this novel. Safe reading, everyone!

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