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magpie7's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Gaslighting, Misogyny, Sexual content, and Sexual harassment
delz's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Bullying and Misogyny
jonezzzing's review
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Misogyny
Moderate: Grief
ashleycmms's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Bullying, Death, Death of parent, Grief, Misogyny, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Cancer, Violence, and Religious bigotry
kayladaila's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Misogyny, Sexism, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Antisemitism, Biphobia, Bullying, Death of parent, and Religious bigotry
paxyshia's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
i think what really helped was ethan. he was so very sweet and like immediately soooo into naomi (and not in any weird gross ways) it was very endearing. naomi was also just very into him and the mutual pining *clutches chest* ugh i fucking love a mutual pining. mutual pining makes me emotional and teary and they just want the world for each other whether they get the prize in the end or not and that means everything to me okay?
there were also so many lines that hit me like “I think I could be good at loving you.” like HELLO??? and nearly right after that: “Say the word, and we can forget this ever happened. I’ll pretend that I never thought about loving you. I’ll look at you less, and without so much longing.” like............ i just........ i yearn...... i pine...... ugh yeah i liked this book and so happy i found it :-)
wait also! i really really enjoyed the judaism in this book! i don’t know much about it or have really heard about the practices but being placed in the middle of these characters, it was interesting to learn. i also just enjoy books that include different cultures and religions and hearing about the faith intertwined in this story was really wonderful and welcoming. i enjoyed the spirituality of it all.
Minor: Antisemitism, Sexism, and Misogyny
emfass's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
There was a brief shining moment somewhere in the middle of this book, maybe right around the part where Naomi and Ethan decide to take the plunge and admit their feelings and give their relationship a try, that I thought, "Holy shit, is this gonna be a 4-star read for me??" The beginning had been choppy and it was difficult for me to find the rhythm of the storytelling, but when we got to that point of the story, there was something about these two characters drawing together and leaping into vulnerability and intensity of feelings that I found so compelling and wonderful.
And then...oh, it all just went so terribly wrong.
I can't even speak to specific examples right now, I'm so spitting mad at how wildly inconsistent and messy everything became/continued to be: the characterization, the scene writing, the plotting. It seemed like multiple people had written various parts of this book and then barely bothered to Franken-stitch them together. And let's be clear: I am mad because I was falling SO HARD for Naomi and the way she was learning to soften, and I ESPECIALLY fell for Ethan fucking Cohen. What a perfect cinnamon roll mensch. But everything fell completely apart for me in the final quarter of the book. I desperately read on hoping things would be salvaged, but alas, my heart kept breaking with every page turn.
I agree with much of JenReadsRomance's review, and she articulates some of the structural downfalls way more intelligently than I can, especially the trap of Ethan and Naomi's relationship following the path set down for them by the syllabus they created for their lecture series, and how this forced the characters into a plot structure instead of letting them drive the story. Also, for a book called The Intimacy Experiment, these characters generally do a horrible job of actually talking to each other about their feelings.
Lastly, I want to say I'm kind of let down by both The Roommate and The Intimacy Experiment in that both of the sex worker main characters in these books are allowed to be the focus of the love story only because they're no longer engaged in the having-sex-with-other-people part of their sex work. Maybe the genre just isn't there yet, but it sure would've been cool to see them still actively working that way and being deemed worth of love/a love story.
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Death of parent, Grief, and Misogyny
Minor: Alcoholism, Antisemitism, Blood, Cancer, and Violence
Main character had naked photos of herself shared around school by her high school boyfriend.leahsbooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny
Moderate: Antisemitism
Minor: Death of parent
yin's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Its very cute and the mutual pining pulled some heart strings, I have to say.
Graphic: Misogyny
Moderate: Sexism
Minor: Antisemitism
decklededgess's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
BRO I LOVED THIS
Graphic: Misogyny, Sexism, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
Moderate: Violence, Toxic relationship, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, Cancer, and Antisemitism
Minor: Cancer, Mental illness, and Religious bigotry