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I first read this book before the George Floyd murder, when Black Lives Matter was a movement that most looked over. After educating myself and surrounding myself and my social media feeds with Black people and their experiences, I feel that I’ve gained more from Justyce McAllister and his story.
Justyce is a very unique character and I’m glad I got a look inside his life, which represents the lives of a lot of Black youth in America. This book is one of the firsts that I’ve annotated and I can assure you that from seeing Jus’s experiences through his eyes, I’ve gotten angry a lot but I’ve also learned a lot.
From Jus himself to Manny, to SJ, and to Doc, I’ve learned about my own White privilege. I related a lot to SJ specifically because she is White and takes a very liberal stand. She has no problem getting into confrontation, which isn’t surprising considering she is Justyce’s debate partner. What I liked a lot about her, since she is a White character written in a book about racial inequality, is that SJ acknowledges her privilege and takes accountability. In one chapter she apologizes to Jus for speaking for him, which reiterates the whole “Don’t speak FOR or OVER Black people, instead raise their voices.” Basically, she’s all about using her privilege as a way to help oppressed minorities. She’s so awesome!
Another character that I admired (somewhat) that isn’t Jus was Jared Christensen. Throughout the entire beginning and middle half, he was one of the biggest reasons I tabbed the book with the color red when annotating. But his character development really shines through near the end, especially in the epilogue. It shows that he’s learned. And I was glad to see that Jus was that person who taught him.
This book is just an all-around must-read. It taught me a lot — opened my eyes even — and I think that it should be on everyone’s TBR.
Graphic: Death, Racism, Police brutality, Grief
Minor: Gun violence, Violence
Graphic: Gun violence, Racism, Police brutality, Antisemitism
Graphic: Death, Hate crime, Grief, Car accident, Murder
Moderate: Child death, Drug use, Gun violence, Hate crime
Minor: Cursing, Violence
Graphic: Gun violence, Racial slurs, Racism, Police brutality
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Racial slurs, Racism, Police brutality
Moderate: Violence
Graphic: Bullying, Child death, Gun violence, Hate crime, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Police brutality, Murder
Graphic: Gun violence, Racial slurs, Racism, Grief
Moderate: Death, Police brutality, Murder
I think Justyce's experiment of Being Like Martin is a great vehicle for asking these questions. Justyce asks himself (or Martin) very difficult questions about how he should move through the world as a black boy. He asks questions about interracial relationships, whether theyre worth it. Dear Martin brings attention to the nature and impact of interpersonal/low-level racism on systemic racism. I am glad this book is as popular as it is because it is a message that deserves to be heard. Especially in a time when Black people are refusing to be used and abused by the system that has continuously attempted to hold them down.
Graphic: Child death, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Gun violence, Hate crime, Racial slurs, Racism, Police brutality, Grief, Murder
Moderate: Bullying, Gun violence, Hate crime, Racial slurs, Racism, Violence, Police brutality, Grief, Murder
Minor: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Genocide, Sexism, Slavery, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Antisemitism
Graphic: Gun violence, Hate crime, Racism, Police brutality
Moderate: Death
I always like a short book that is packed with real issues to address, so it's completely fine by me.
This book talks about white privilege and police brutality. How someone could commit the same crime yet the output they receive will be different according to their race. It's so...unfair. I mean who invented that "law"?
The characters are very unique, especially Justyce. How he went from the "bad part of the neighborhood" to study in the most prestigious school where the majority of students are white. That makes him sort of confused. On one part, he doesn't fit with his school friends but on the other part, the people who look like him won't accept him either.
It's like I'm trying to climb a mountain, but I've got one fool trying to shove me down so I won't be on his level, and another fool tugging at my leg, trying to pull me to the ground he refuses to leave.
I probably won't understand what they're going through. I mean there are racist people from my country too and I'm on the majority side, but still our culture is different so it'd completely different to experience racism in the US and in Indonesia, for one thing, gun is illegal here. But one thing that I like is that SJ makes it easier for me to understand their situation. I love it when she gives her arguments to Jared because I can learn from it too.
Graphic: Death, Gun violence, Racial slurs, Racism, Police brutality