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writingcaia's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
This is his story, a half Vietnamese American gay boy, with a ptsd (trauma induced) violent mother, a demented but so wise grandmother, an absent father, living in a bad neighbourhood, and him falling in love with a “white trash” addict boy. It is also about flashes of his mother and grandmother’s lives, the Vietnam War and the brutality, and extreme violence and destruction it imposed on the Vietnamese, like his mother and grandmother.
Like the lives of those we see through his eyes, his is hard and sad, but with moments of genuine enchantment and delight, the little things he treasures, specially when he’s a little boy, but then there’s the love, which is strange and hard too, a homophobic gay boy, an addict, but there’s still love, and I risk saying it reads as if he was if not the love of his life one of.
Just writing this so long after I’ve finished the book, I feel like crying, it digs deep and latches, it’s moving and emotional, crude and candid, no filters only vivid truth.
It’s really a tale about the consequences of war in second and third generations, about racism, about coming out as gay, about addiction and how it can kill off a generation in poor countries/neighbourhoods, and about love and understanding for a hard mother.
The book reads almost as a poem, lyric and entrancing, as it is harsh and brutal in its words, moving like a wave, advancing and receding, although mostly moving temporarily forward in his life.
I think this is a book that will become a classic of our times since it touches with such candor on so many relevant and 20th century important moments and circumstances, and the lives of those born in the last decades of it in the US of A.
Graphic: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Fire/Fire injury, Sexual content, and Violence
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Car accident, Excrement, Homophobia, and War
flamesocks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: War, Abortion, Addiction, Alcoholism, Xenophobia, Blood, Cancer, Car accident, Colonisation, Death, Death of parent, Drug use, Drug abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Genocide, Gun violence, Grief, Hate crime, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Pregnancy, and Violence
erikalv97's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
I loved the writer’s style, the constant change of tenses, narration and the really thorough descriptions.
The story itself is hard hitting, I cried several times (please check the cw!!!!)
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Cancer, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Drug abuse, Drug use, War, Abortion, Addiction, Alcohol, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Blood, Death, Domestic abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Hate crime, Bullying, Child abuse, Classism, Colonisation, Mental illness, Racism, Physical abuse, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
Moderate: Excrement
clemrain's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.75
Graphic: Racism, Addiction, Death, Grief, and Mental illness
Moderate: Racial slurs, Homophobia, War, Terminal illness, Abortion, Death of parent, Bullying, Child abuse, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Mass/school shootings, Car accident, Domestic abuse, and Fire/Fire injury
The sex scenes are not in there for fun. Nothing romantic about it. I skimmed or skipped over them because they were just hard to read.internationalreads's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Abandonment, Addiction, Animal cruelty, Cancer, Car accident, Child abuse, Confinement, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Domestic abuse, Excrement, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Homophobia, Mental illness, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Violence, War, Xenophobia, and Racism
sadiefc's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Abortion, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Child abuse, War, and Sexual content
Moderate: Abandonment, Addiction, Alcohol, Blood, Bullying, Car accident, Child abuse, Child death, Colonisation, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Excrement, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Hate crime, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Racism, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Xenophobia, Vomit, and Transphobia