Reviews tagging 'Pregnancy'

Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate

19 reviews

butilikeit's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Kidnapping, Child abuse, and Child death

Moderate: Child death, Confinement, Grief, Death of parent, Dementia, and Sexual assault

Minor: Pregnancy and Suicidal thoughts

pferdina's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

Based on true horrors of the abduction and sale of children in Memphis Tennessee between 1920 and 1950, the novel alternates back and forth in time. One story follows the Depression era story of Rill Foss and her siblings, taken from their family houseboat and then adopted by various people. Only three of them find each other again. The other story is Avery Stafford, daughter of a senator and the one who discovers her grandmother’s true history while struggling to figure out who she wants to be.

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Content Warnings

Minor: Cancer, Child abuse, Child death, Pedophilia, Suicide attempt, Alcohol, Dementia, Pregnancy, Forced institutionalization, Trafficking, Classism, and Physical abuse

forgetfullucy17's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death and Child abuse

Moderate: Alcoholism, Forced institutionalization, Pregnancy, Kidnapping, Sexual assault, Death of parent, and Grief

sarah_amy's review

challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

This book both had and broke my heart. I cared so much about Rill/May, her siblings and all the other children, and Avery's investigation among it all. I went in completely blind with this book, so was floored to know this is based on real events and that Georgia Tann was the person behind all the horror. I was less interested in the political side of it all and the romance felt a bit forced (not a bad match, just unnecessary). It would have been a 5 star on the investigation and flashbacks to Rill/May's past alone, but the politics/romance almost felt like I was being interrupted by a side story.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Confinement, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Trafficking, Domestic abuse, Grief, Kidnapping, Child abuse, Torture, and Racism

Moderate: Death of parent, Slavery, Abandonment, Alcohol, Dementia, Pregnancy, Pedophilia, Cursing, Rape, Confinement, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Child death, Death, Gaslighting, Bullying, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, and Violence

Based on the child trafficking/illegal adoption agency of Georgia Tann. Lots of details of abuse and allusions to death that went on in the foster homes involved. Many of these children were adopted out illegally and without the consent of the birth parents - some were outright stolen like in this story.

ajay913's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative mysterious sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Trafficking, Child abuse, and Kidnapping

Moderate: Death of parent, Sexual assault, Child death, and Pregnancy

Minor: Violence and Racial slurs

katiejohns's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Kidnapping and Child abuse

Moderate: Death, Death of parent, and Pregnancy

jacquibear's review against another edition

dark emotional sad tense medium-paced

• Loveable characters? It's complicated

4.25

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Dementia, Classism, Child abuse, and Child death

Minor: Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Bullying, Cancer, Confinement, Kidnapping, Rape, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, and Pregnancy

wifeslife's review against another edition

dark sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Plot
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Confinement, Sexual assault, Rape, Racism, Sexual harassment, Violence, Grief, Pregnancy, Addiction, Infertility, Sexual violence, Murder, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, Slavery, Torture, Alcoholism, Child death, Death, Death of parent, Dementia, Forced institutionalization, Kidnapping, and Miscarriage

chelle22's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? N/A
• Strong character development? N/A

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Physical abuse, Alcohol, Bullying, Cancer, Sexual harassment, Abandonment, Child abuse, Child death, Dementia, Kidnapping, Pregnancy, Rape, Murder, Self harm, Sexual assault, Suicide attempt, and Violence

kktaylor11's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

I've seen this book for several years, and thought about it, but for some reason I had it in my mind that it was a "Dust Bowl" book along the lines of James Agee and "Let Us Now Praise Famous Men." I grabbed it on Audible the other day because a book club I'm in had it listed as a summer read, and I am glad I did! 
The story centers on the experiences of a little girl (Rill) who along with her siblings is taken into state custody off of their family's shanty boat during the Great Depression -- juxtaposing Rill's story with the modern day story of Avery, a member of a wealthy political family.  One thing I'll say before I get to spoilers -- I am often hesitant about any book that pulls the "back and forth through time" card, but this one is actually done fairly well! The blending is nearly seamless and is connected to the story, and keeps you engaged from beginning to end. Now...for story thoughts, enter the spoilers: 

  The book opens with a brief vignette of a young woman giving birth to a stillborn child. Her husband? father? immediately tells the doctor the young woman's inability to have children will kill her, and the doctor suggests "there is a solution..." and then the book begins. So from page 1 you have the inkling that this is going to have to do with stolen children -- and boy does it! The essence of the book is the question of what happened to Rill and her siblings once they were "kidnapped" by the police. [Rill's mother is unable to give birth to twins on the boat and is taken by Rill's father into the city to the hospital, leaving Rill in charge of the children. The police show up and nearly immediately take Rill and family into custody, delivering them to the infamous Georgia Tann.] From there the novel develops beautifully well, and keeps the reader thoroughly engaged. Rill's story is interspersed with Avery's story -- a beautiful, rich, spoiled "but I know I'm spoiled and I appreciate it" young woman who has rushed to town to be appointed to the legislature in her father's place when/if he dies of cancer. Avery was a little over the top for me. The character wasn't very likable because she was so out of touch, and the "I don't necessarily want all this privilege" wasn't enough to make me like her. Avery accompanies her father on a trip to a nursing home where she meets an elderly woman named May Weathers who seems to think Avery's bracelet is her own -- this leads Avery to start researching May Weathers, discovers a photograph that looks like her own grandmother and then the search is on. 

So the first 3/4 of the book I thought was great. I was deeply invested and really enjoyed it - even though Avery's character annoyed me a bit. BUT - I felt like the last 1/4 was dragged out unnecessarily. The whole part where the girls run away and find their father's boat was unrealistic - I'm sorry, the river is LONG...it's highly unlikely two children under 12 are going to find the single boat they are looking for in essentially one day. The addition of the "boy who is actually a girl" was unnecessary. She could have just been a girl character -- have her be the little girl who comes and brings her father lunch every day while he works - he can still beat her and be mean to her. It just felt forced. Rill's father crashing the boat and the fiery wreck -- all felt unnecessary. The story to that point had been focused on the children and the horrors of the Children's Home...I understand the desire to give them "closure" on their life so they could "be OK" in their new life - but it just wasn't realistic and almost added a justification to the story, like "this is what their lives would have been like, so the police are right to have taken them." 
Also - Avery - Ugh. Her character annoyed me from the beginning - the exaggerated emphasis on her wealth -- the awkward "we're riding horses on Sunday because we're rich..." or "we have too many houses because we're rich" felt like overkill. We get it - wealthy families bought the children. But the love story took the cake. There was ZERO reason to have Avery engaged and then suddenly fall in love with someone else. There wasn't a hint she was unhappy with her fiancee until suddenly she's hiding her wedding ring to talk to Trent. Just cut the fiancee, have her be a single woman uninterested in getting married but pressured to "find a man" for politics. She doesn't need to be emotionally cheating on someone for the relationship with Trent to have value. 

So overall, I enjoyed the story. I had ZERO knowledge of Georgia Tann and the Tennessee Children's Home Society until I read this book and did some research. It's horrid, but not entirely shocking if you understand the state of social services in the 1930s. There's a reason "Little Orphan Annie" was a classic story. 
Bottom line - this is worth a read, and I don't resent the time I spent listening to it -- I actually enjoyed it! I might recommend it to someone here or there - but I won't read it again. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Child abuse, Child death, Pregnancy, Death of parent, Grief, Miscarriage, Abandonment, Classism, and Forced institutionalization

Minor: Infertility