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zubers's review against another edition
2.0
Overthorough and sexist at times are the main reason why it is docked three stars. I did appreciate examples and clarifying remarks, but it was longer than it needed to be. For those not into self help books that include Christian beliefs explicitly tied into them (references to the Bible, assurances that God will never turn you away, etc) this one has those about once a chapter. I understand those are helpful to others, so not docking points but noting for anyone who might be looking at reviews before reading. It does make it a less widely accessible book, but it also does not rely on those axims fully.
Likely helpful for people trying to figure out how to reach their kids.
Likely helpful for people trying to figure out how to reach their kids.
craftygoat's review against another edition
3.5
3.5. Nice enough read. Not sure I'm sold on there being 5 distinct "languages," with everyone having a primary preference. But it's a good reminder to look for hints in the way our kids (spouse, etc.) really sense our love. Interesting that the advice here to use requests ("Could you please turn off the iPad?") vs. clearly-stated commands goes counter to most of the parenting advice books I've read -- goes to show that even experts can't agree on *right* techniques. Anyway, off to spend some quality time with my kids!
heatherwillard's review against another edition
extreamly usefull communication tool on devloping a loving open communication with your child and teaching him or her to tap into other people emotional needs
lilyloveslibby's review against another edition
I read the regular version. This was a lot of the same thing but had more religious content.
michellewords's review against another edition
4.0
The five love languages have been on my radar since I was single. I've taken quizzes and been to seminars. Last year I borrowed the original from the library for couples. I had a crazy hard time getting into it and I never finished.
The children's version entered my tbr in 2003 when my oldest was like 2.5. She was a different toddler/baby. She was hard to motivate and was not particularly affectionate. She's six now and still squirms away from hugs and kisses. I believe in love languages because of my experiences with her.
I discovered her language pretty early in the book, but I kept reading because this book is so much easier and simpler than the original for me. This book has value beyond my life as a mother. This book helps break down different methods of communication for all. While I will never touch strangers, I can use the methods to express care and appreciation for those around me in my other relationships.
Fantastic book with great ideas! Highly recommend to all with AND without kids. This world could always use some more open minds and better communication.
The children's version entered my tbr in 2003 when my oldest was like 2.5. She was a different toddler/baby. She was hard to motivate and was not particularly affectionate. She's six now and still squirms away from hugs and kisses. I believe in love languages because of my experiences with her.
I discovered her language pretty early in the book, but I kept reading because this book is so much easier and simpler than the original for me. This book has value beyond my life as a mother. This book helps break down different methods of communication for all. While I will never touch strangers, I can use the methods to express care and appreciation for those around me in my other relationships.
Fantastic book with great ideas! Highly recommend to all with AND without kids. This world could always use some more open minds and better communication.
amibunk's review against another edition
4.0
I didn't enjoy the writing in this book. And I found the content, at times, redundant. Why would I give this book 4 stars? Because it helped me understand better than any other parenting book I've read how to express my love to my children in ways that THEY will comprehend. The authors laid out simple things I can do to reach out to my kids and they were things I hadn't considered before because they are not things I would appreciate. There were definite lightbulb moments while reading this book.
maryehavens's review against another edition
3.0
Good, applicable information on what your children really need. It helped me define their love languages and gave me a different, and better, approach to discipline and loving on them. Even though the repeated concept of the "emotional love tank" was there ad nauseum, it helped give a visual to something that I figured my children already had. "Of course they know I love them because I feed them, hug them, etc." Not exactly.
christieb123's review against another edition
4.0
This was insightful to look at my children this way and figure out what each of their "love languages" is to know how best to show love to them.
kamckim's review against another edition
5.0
This was an interesting choice for my school parent bookclub, but it turned out we all loved it! It doesn't matter where you are in the world, parents want to know how to love their children. Many good and humorous discussions about our own kids came up in our conversations. I highly encourage parents to read this one. I'm working on discovering how my children need love, and I am better for it.
littlebookontheprairie's review against another edition
4.0
I went to a seminar once with my sister about the Five Love Languages. After that, I wanted to read the book in more detail. I am excited to learn what my kids primary love language is so I can love her the best way, for her.