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ems888's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Physical abuse and Racism
Moderate: Addiction, Body shaming, Child abuse, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, and Sexual assault
Minor: Police brutality
rlgreen91's review against another edition
4.5
But as I said, this was necessary. The political is personal and the personal is political. The political and policy decisions we make has repercussions years, decades, centuries later. So much of the pain we deal with as a society is the consequences of deliberate political and policy decisions made by forebearers and ancestors. So much of the pain we deal with in our personal lives are the consequences of decisions made in response to those political and policy decisions. Simultaneously, we are the forebearers and ancestors making the political and policy decisions and decisions in response to that that will cause pain for others in the future. It all becomes this overwhelming, never-ending maze of hurt in many ways.
How do we start to heal on a personal and societal level? Hell, how do we just get it to stop hurting, at least? I agree with Laymon that that requires a level of honesty and vulnerability that many of us, myself included, struggle to engage with or refuse to contemplate.
This was a hard but necessary read - a memoir I will surely revisit but at least a good number of years from now. Maybe then I'll have a better idea of how to answer my questions. Until then - basking in Black abundance. 4.5 stars.
Graphic: Addiction, Child abuse, Eating disorder, and Racism
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Medical content
vavocado's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Body shaming and Eating disorder
Moderate: Addiction
marena02's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Hate crime, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Vomit, Police brutality, Islamophobia, Car accident, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
kayleajayne's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Addiction and Body shaming
Moderate: Sexual content
mattyvreads's review against another edition
5.0
It is a courageous exploration of Layson’s personal navigation through addiction, discrimination, physical and emotional abuse, eating disorders, mental health, grief — all underscored and interwoven with the racial and gendered perspective of his lived experience.
The book is incredibly accessible, offering not just a baseline understanding of issues on racism and feminism, but through personal stories, working the reader up to examples of intersectional discrimination, examples of misogynior, and examples of a complex relationship with the human body. He offers critique of the elitism and inherent racism of major universities.
But, somehow, the book is not “preachy” whatsoever. (And even if it was, I’d still be here for the ride.) It’s tender, it’s emotional, it’s personal in a way that says: “this is my experience. This was my friend’s experience. This was my mom’s experience.” It’s incontestably honest and indefatigably moving.
I can’t stop thinking about this book.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Racial slurs, and Racism
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Hate crime, and Rape
Minor: Misogyny
kshertz's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Body horror, Body shaming, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Racism, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Abandonment, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
bootsmom3's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Body shaming, Cursing, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Police brutality, and Classism
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Gun violence, Infidelity, Mental illness, Medical content, and Medical trauma
Minor: Dementia
michelle_my_belle's review against another edition
Graphic: Addiction, Body shaming, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Incest, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
karmapen's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Child abuse, Eating disorder, Sexual violence, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Addiction, Domestic abuse, Gun violence, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Toxic relationship, and Vomit