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Be Not Afraid of Love: Lessons on Fear, Intimacy, and Connection by Mimi Zhu
16 reviews
decaying's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Misogyny, Racism, Rape, and Colonisation
Minor: Classism
cojiberries's review against another edition
3.75
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Grief, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
imcourtneymarie's review against another edition
4.5
When I say be not afraid of love, I do not mean that we should rid ourselves of fear, but that we should sit with our fear, and learn to love it, too. I love my entire embodied being. Instead of pointing a trembling finger at love, I look closely and gently at my fear. I love myself the fulness of my feelings and I do not push myself away when difficult emotions arise… love reveals the truth to us because love is the truth. To be committed to love is to be committed to the infinite life of change.
There are a great many quotes I could pull from this book that made me weep or my heart sing. There were chapters where I felt the immediate sting of “hey, me too…”.
While Mimi’s story about abusive X and finding her ability to accept and feel love(d) again, if you’ve ever felt abused or neglected or unloved by anyone that’s “supposed to” love you, you may find strength and closure in Be Not Afraid Of Love. My X is familial and I found myself breathing along and internalizing much of what she said. Chapter 9 about miracles (not just of the religious kind) struck a particular chord.
I’m very glad I picked this one up. Can’t wait to share it with my therapist 🤪
Graphic: Rape and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Sexual violence, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, and Sexual assault
Minor: Classism and Colonisation
donutlookaway's review
5.0
Graphic: Sexual assault, Violence, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Physical abuse
Moderate: Rape
noahee's review
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Sexual violence, Rape, and Sexual assault
madelynemae's review
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Sexual assault, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Violence, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Racism, Rape, Sexual violence, and Sexual assault