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My Friends by Fredrik Backman

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DID NOT FINISH: 20%

Marin Ireland and Fredrik Backman are a match made in heaven. But almost 3 hours in, I'm not sure where the story is going or even whose story it is.

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adventurous funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective relaxing sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

Halfway through this books I remained unconvinced I would truly connect with the story. That judgement had nothing to do with writing but rather with the characters. In the beginning I wasn’t able to fully connect to the characters’ struggles but at some point I unexpectedly found myself loving them. The writing itself is exquisite; it manages to be incredibly deep and reflective without coming off repetitive or pretentious (a seemingly hard task for many writers). The only reason this wasn’t 5 stars for me was because I couldn’t connect to the character for over half the book, but that’s reader error and speaks nothing of the contents in this book. 


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emotional funny reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

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adventurous emotional reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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adventurous challenging emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I love Backman's writing ability. The way he is able to so intricately discuss emotions and the human condition and shine light in areas that most books shy away from, is truly a remarkable talent. This book made me feel all the feelings and actually felt a bit like a thriller in the sense that I was constantly trying to figure out the story and was in suspense throughout the whole book. The only reason this wasn't a 5 star for me is that I do feel like it was hard to keep track of the timing of everything because we kept jumping back and forth from past to present timelines but the past timelines was jumbled and would jump all around. I also felt that Ted's telling of the story was rather scrambled and drawn out. There are multiple times in the book where we're led to believe that we're finally going to get some answers, but then it's just another side story. Idk I loved the book, would highly recommend it, I just felt that it left me a bit confused at times and wishing we could jump forward a bit in the story.

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emotional funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes

Grab your tissues! This book made me cry in most chapters and it was still one of the best books I’ve ever read. Deep, real, and lovely despite also being heartbreaking.
The audio was fantastic. Highly recommend listening- I’d give it 10 stars!

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dark emotional inspiring reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

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emotional hopeful medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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