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Přátelé, lásky a ten ohromný průšvih by Matthew Perry

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An emotional account at Matthrew's life and struggles. It was difficult to hear the heartbreaking account of emotional pain and addiction of someone who inspired so many and brought the world so much joy and laughter - and has helped those who felt unseen feel understood and appreciated. Though immensely sad at times, hearing Matthew tell his own story was comforting in a way - like I was in the room with him, someone who, even after his passing, still can bring me to tears with laughter. Glad he shared story before his passing.

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Matthew Perry is raw, uncut and completely honest in his autobiography.  Big giant trigger warning, read with care. I cried several times throughout, but as a person with a family full of addiction and as a huge fan of Matthew it only seemed right to read it.  

Prepare yourself for a journey, not an easy one. But one that leads to sobriety, faith, and redemption. 

RIP Mattman 

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This book, Matthew Perry's autobiography, was criticised a lot when it first came out. Maybe it's because I struggle with very low self esteem, or because I wrestle with mental health difficulties, or maybe it's because he's dead and he gave me a lot of comfort as Chandler for most of my life, but I feel compelled to challenge three of the criticisms and stand up for him a little: 

1. People say how he talks about women is disrespectful, and I'm sorry, but I didn't see that. Admitting former crushes isn't disrespectful.  He clearly admired his three co-stars for their intelligence, kindness and talent, and he talks warmly about every single woman he had a long term relationship with. 

2. Goodreads reviews are littered with commentary on his inability to accept accountability for his own addiction and blaming a lot of people for where he ended up, from parents to doctors. Well, the truth is, and anyone that has sat through at least one therapy session will agree, that somewhere a long the way, someone else is probably to blame for our poor habits and the terrible ways we react to things. You can hold them accountable and also forgive them, it seems Matthew is doing both in this book.

3. His bizarre dig at Keanu Reeves. Has everyone forgotten slagging Keanu Reeves was cool once? I'm guessing Matthew missed the memo about him being an internet boyfriend now what with being in his 50s and having seriously addled his brain with drugs; his editor should have caught it. Get over it! 

This isn't the most spectacularly written book, but it serves it's purpose. It criticises the US rehabilitation system for being a bit of a cash grab, it shows the strength it takes to work on yourself, it encourages hope and teaches people a lesson: to take every opportunity that comes your way, because you never know where it will lead. 

This is a poignant read after his death. I hope he found peace towards the end. 

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