Reviews tagging 'Grief'

The Night Parade: A Speculative Memoir by Jami Nakamura Lin

6 reviews

chris_reads's review against another edition

emotional informative reflective sad slow-paced

4.75

The writing style, the illustrations, the philosophical musings on mental health, cultural preservation, and the transient nature of memory being expressed through metaphors of folklore were breathtaking. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death of parent, Suicide attempt, Miscarriage, Cancer, Drug abuse, and Mental illness

Moderate: Dysphoria, Forced institutionalization, and Grief

Minor: Pandemic/Epidemic, Ableism, Racism, Self harm, Infertility, and Medical content

dalenora's review against another edition

emotional hopeful reflective slow-paced

5.0

This book put words to things I’d been experiencing but not able to articulate. The way she wrote about grief and mental illness struck a real chord with me and I think I’ll be carrying this book with me for years to come. My 5 star books are always biased (only if a book truly speaks to my soul does it get to that level) but this book certainly fits the bill.  

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Terminal illness, Suicide attempt, Grief, and Mental illness

Moderate: Pregnancy, Xenophobia, and Miscarriage

moraina's review

emotional reflective sad slow-paced

4.5

Using written and illustrated Japanese folklore, Jami and Cori Nakamura Lin draw parallels to mental illness and grief. I enjoyed the author’s descriptions of both her own and her father’s illness, where she was able to show her uncertainty and fear of the future. She also includes many family stories, through which she archives the family history and defines her cultural identity. Although I am from a completely different familial background, I related to much of Jami’s worries as a young girl and her desire to learn more about family members that did not reveal much from their own lives.

The uncertainty that the author encountered means that the story sometimes meanders through different points in time, and I found it difficult to keep track of the story and stay engaged with the material at some parts of the book. The numerous references to yōkai scholars and encyclopedias that I am unfamiliar with also contributed to this. I would still recommend it if the concept is your cup of tea, as the writing and illustrations will stick with you; it just took me a bit longer to read than normal.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Drug abuse, Self harm, Miscarriage, Grief, Infertility, Mental illness, Suicide attempt, Terminal illness, Colonisation, and Death of parent

hmetwade's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.25

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Drug abuse, Miscarriage, Pandemic/Epidemic, Self harm, Grief, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Pregnancy, Terminal illness, Death of parent, Cancer, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, Dementia, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Chronic illness, and Forced institutionalization

qqjj's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Self harm, Xenophobia, Chronic illness, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Suicidal thoughts, Pandemic/Epidemic, Grief, Addiction, Death of parent, Death, Medical content, Injury/Injury detail, Pregnancy, Cancer, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Suicide attempt, Dementia, Miscarriage, and Terminal illness

starrysteph's review

challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

The Night Parade is a truly beautiful book - both in its art (the collection of illustrations by the author’s sister are hauntingly gorgeous) and in its language. 

This is Jami Nakamura Lin’s story, and it’s not framed like many other memoirs or fictional books centered around mental illness. This isn’t a narrative of hitting rock bottom and forging your way towards a triumphant future. It’s as messy as life is, and Lin navigates the reality of living with mental illness and grief: it’s a never ending rollercoaster. You learn to coexist with your ghosts. 

She finds new ways to explore her experience with mental illness, grief & loss, and motherhood. A big part of the storytelling involves the Japanese myth of the Hyakki Yagyo. Sections begin with a yokai, and the narration often uses different elements of folklore and myth. The memoir is also written in a four act structure, which I thought was pretty neat.

I don’t think all the segments are equally successful - and sometimes the connections to the yokai felt a bit forced - but when it worked, boy did it work. Some moments broke me, and others were so relatable. I love memoirs that push boundaries, and this one was a fascinating experiment. 

(Also as someone who has experienced several pyogenic granulomas I was pretty excited to read about Lin’s experience - I mean, they’re a bummer, but this is the first time I’ve seen them mentioned in a book.)

CW: mental illness, death of parent, suicide attempt, miscarriage, pregnancy, forced institutionalization, cancer, terminal illness

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(I received a free copy of this book; this is my honest review.)

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Suicide attempt, Pregnancy, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Death of parent, Forced institutionalization, Cancer, Suicidal thoughts, Medical content, Chronic illness, Grief, and Terminal illness