Reviews tagging 'Child abuse'

Very Cold People by Sarah Manguso

16 reviews

ncghammo's review against another edition

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challenging dark sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0


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nicoleisalwaysreading's review

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

written in vignettes, spaced in a way that mirrors memories, I suppose. not linked in an obvious way other than the way life strings events along like pearls.
inherently gross, in all the meanings of that word: very obviously wrong, very unpleasant, repulsive. there is life and decay/hurt and joy wound up together tightly in this novel. it’s written poignantly and pays attention to details in a special way.

Ruthie is sharpened by the sharp world around here. a difficult read with explicit and implicit descriptions of sexual abuse - both sinister and destructive to Ruthie and her friends and family. anything about her mother made me extremely uncomfortable, almost to the point of giving up on this book.

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rebekahvldz's review

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challenging sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? N/A
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

0.5

I can very confidently say this is the worst book I have ever read in my entire 25 years of living .I would've DNF'd but I had to read it for school. More thoughts to follow. 

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lil13's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated

4.0


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zwin's review

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dark reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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erint's review

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challenging dark sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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danidamico's review

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dark reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character

4.0

"I thought that maybe it was wrong to be that loudly happy, and that she was trying to protect me".

Esta novela narra la historia de Ruthie, una adolescente que crece en un suburbio de Massachussetts y observa todo lo que sucede a su alrededor. La autora Sarah Manguso expone todas las pequeñas (y no tan pequeñas) miserias que existen debajo de la fachada de decencia, la realidad detrás de la imagen de revista del típico pueblo norteamericano. En menos de 200 páginas, Ruthie relata la crueldad a la que fue sometida por parte de su familia, especialmente su madre, y cómo esa misma crueldad se reproduce en cada casa del barrio, en la escuela, en cada vínculo. Cómo el veneno de los adultos ya comienza a asentarse en los niños. 

Es un libro en el que los hechos más terribles se mencionan rápidamente, al pasar, porque es así como la sociedad los percibe y nos enseña a percibirlos. Un estado permanente de elipsis. Normalizar la violencia ejercida sobre los cuerpos de niños y mujeres. "It was clear to me that what had happened to her wasn't rare but normal, that it was too common even to register as a story. It wasn't even a story at all", escribe Manguso.

La "gente muy fría" del título no se refiere sólo a la familia de la narradora, hace referencia a todo el pueblo, al cual Manguso caracterizó como un lugar de "pobreza emocional", que a su vez funciona como una versión en miniatura de toda la sociedad. Las cosas que ocurren en Waitsfield no son únicas, suceden todos los días en todas partes. La crueldad, la falta de empatía, el clasismo, el desprecio por uno mismo y el otro. La desconexión apática ante el dolor propio y ajeno. Es también una novela sobre la inocencia perdida, sobre infancias interrumpidas. 

Es un libro silencioso, sútil, pero absolutamente violento.

"She'd believed his praise was genuine. She hadn't noticed that he'd pegged her as a person who would snatch up any compliment into the maw of her unloved, throbbing little heart".

"She was telling me that she'd absorbed so much of her father's violent attentions that she had to get it out of herself, to inflict it on a mute, inanimate object that would never tell".

"My mother looked at me. (...) As if she wanted to take good care of me but knew that she couldn't, that no one could protect a child from being hurt, that no one could take care of anyone". 

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d3nim_diva's review

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dark reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5


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lmc_phd's review

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dark reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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samhanson's review

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dark sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25


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