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Very Cold People by Sarah Manguso

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nicoleisalwaysreading's review

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

written in vignettes, spaced in a way that mirrors memories, I suppose. not linked in an obvious way other than the way life strings events along like pearls.
inherently gross, in all the meanings of that word: very obviously wrong, very unpleasant, repulsive. there is life and decay/hurt and joy wound up together tightly in this novel. it’s written poignantly and pays attention to details in a special way.

Ruthie is sharpened by the sharp world around here. a difficult read with explicit and implicit descriptions of sexual abuse - both sinister and destructive to Ruthie and her friends and family. anything about her mother made me extremely uncomfortable, almost to the point of giving up on this book.

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lil13's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated

4.0


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zwin's review

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dark reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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erint's review

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challenging dark sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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samhanson's review

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dark sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25


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mjhalberstadt's review

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dark mysterious sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

2.0

I love love love Sarah Manguso's 300 Arguments as well as much of her poetry, but I find that her writing style applied to storytelling simply does not work in this case. A friend described this to me as an "oblique character study", which feels right to me. So many sentences and symbols took my breath away, but I also felt deeply bored and frustrated, and I wanted her commentary about sexual abuse and class to cut sharper than it did. Then the end contains a series of shocks that don't quite feel earned... I'll read Manguso's next collection of poetry, but remain wary of her fiction. Really disappointed.

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caoimheisme's review

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emotional reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated

4.0


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constantine2020's review

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dark emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

 Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ ½
Genre: General Fiction + Literary Fiction

This is the coming of age story of a girl called Ruth, surrounded by very cold people in a small town (Waitsfield). Whether it is her mother, father, relative, or acquaintances. Everybody feels cold and distant. The story is narrated by her and through her eyes, we live her life, her difficult childhood whether it is in the emotional abuse that she gets or the way her parents are so toxic to each other and to her. 

This novel is not written in a typical way. It feels more like a documentary or precisely a memoir and it flows beautifully. The writing style hooked me right from the start. At times I felt very very sorry for the main character and other times I laughed hard due to the mother’s self-centered attitude. Keep in mind that this book stays faithful to its title. You are not going to find any kind of hope or warmth or a change of attitude from those very cold people. This is a story not only about a toxic family but a toxic society. Although the main character never suffers from any physical abuse, the emotional abuse she suffers from is deep. This emotional abuse affects her mental health at a later stage. Physical abuse is present in the story though and it is suffered by other characters. 

If you are a fan of stories about dysfunctional families/society you should not miss this one. It has all the solid ingredients be it an honest narrator, a good ending, and never a boring moment. The way it is written makes it a fast easy read. I loved it. 

Many thanks to the publisher Random House Publishing Group and NetGalley for providing me with an advance reader copy of this book. 

 

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biblizo's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

I received a copy of this book from Penguin Random House and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. 

Ruthie, a young child at the novel’s opening, feels passionately unmoored in Waitsfield. The cold, New England landscape seems completely inhabitable for herself and her family. As the story continues, and Ruth ages into a young woman, it becomes clear that personal, political, and historical narratives of dis-ease convene to make Waitsfield a place to escape, or die trying. 

In beginning this book, I think there is the temptation to dismiss it as listless, or even confused. The sense of time and trajectory in this novel is unlike many I’ve encountered: not-quite-linear, but not completely atypical, either. 

Our child narrator, Ruthie, rescues this uncertain beginning. As a reader, I usually steer clear of child narrators for the ways in which plots tend to become juvenile, or condescending. This is never the case with Very Cold People. Ruthie is a brilliant and perceptive narrator from the get-go, and her bizarre and brutal observations of her family and those around her make the pages of this story come alive. As she suffers embarrassment, shame, guilt, joy, and sadness, her readers emote alongside her. 

The writing is fast paced and snappy. While the subject matter persists in the mind (this is a dark book about abuse and sexual assault, amongst other troubling topics), the syntax of this novel is slim, sleek, and designed to push you forward. The result is a whirlwind, but in a very quiet way. While many small town stories end in chaos, Manguso concludes this novel with barely a whisper. Yet, it lingers, all the same. 

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