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unmistakablyphoenix's review against another edition
3.75
I’m glad I read it, I feel I gained something from learning about such interesting cultures and perspectives so far removed from my own. It was difficult for me to read at points, but I still felt compelled to see how the story ends and it didn’t disappoint.
Graphic: Slavery, Infidelity, Misogyny, Colonisation, Grief, Emotional abuse, and Classism
Moderate: Death of parent, Gaslighting, Self harm, Rape, Pedophilia, and Murder
Minor: Drug abuse
irie_e's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.75
Graphic: Infidelity
Moderate: Misogyny and Toxic relationship
Minor: Self harm, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, and Sexual assault
bluerskies's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Graphic: Infidelity
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Vomit, Sexual harassment, Toxic friendship, Rape, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Suicidal thoughts, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Mental illness, Vomit, Grief, and Death of parent
amberinpieces's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Infidelity
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Injury/Injury detail, Sexism, Sexual content, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Vomit, Alcohol, Self harm, Slavery, Grief, Death, Rape, Blood, Pedophilia, Pregnancy, and Suicidal thoughts
anarmandameg's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Drug use, Drug abuse, Pedophilia, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic friendship, Child death, Colonisation, Infidelity, Rape, Slavery, Violence, Racism, Death, Addiction, Alcohol, and Murder
Minor: Medical content, Abandonment, Self harm, Sexual content, and Classism
minimicropup's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
🇳🇬☀️🌧️ Set in the Victoria Island region of Lagos, Nigeria. The story unfolds during summer and the rainy season.
POV: We alternate between the perspectives of one character before their disappearance and that of their relative travelling to Nigeria from the UK to find them.
Mood Reading Match Up:
-Deep dives into family dynamics, exploring different aspects of African identity, expatriate experiences, and cultural contrasts
-True crime-style mystery centred on a missing person
-Complex romantic drama with themes of secret lives and mismatched relationships
-Rich exploration of themes like ‘behind closed doors’, femininity, motherhood, marriage, tradition versus rebellion, love, freedom, and sacrifice.
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🐺 Growls, Howls, and Tail Wags 🐕
✏️ Writing: The prose is beautifully crafted. It has a heavy reliance on dialogue to drive the plot and scenes, so if that’s not your favourite it could be more difficult to stay engaged.
🫥 Characters: All the characters are intriguing to learn about, gradually becoming relatable and evoking empathy or frustration.
🗺️ Worldbuilding: The description of Lagos is atmospheric and experiential, offering in-depth insights into the sounds, smells, sights, and local culture.
🔥 Fuel: The story is character-driven, focusing on Nicole’s life leading up to her disappearance and the subsequent search to uncover the truth.
🐢 Pacing: The narrative is dialogue-heavy, interspersed with monologues recalling past conversations. It feels like a drama, with distinctive character voices and opinions. It sometimes feels slow, particularly when characters are philosophical or exploring commentary, but I never found it uninteresting or lazy. I can see how it can be tiresome if you are here mainly here for the mysteries and thrills though!
That ending…I need to know more! Hoping for a follow-up novel!
🤔 Random Thoughts: The novel excellently portrays the complexities of gender roles and expectations, showing how these can be both protective and destructive. It delves into the reasons behind the enforcement of traditions and their impacts on modern society.
I think it was a thought-provoking and immersive read, offering a multifaceted view of Nigerian life and the complexities of interpersonal relationships.
🎧 Audio: The audiobook narration is outstanding, with clear distinctions between characters and accents. Narrators brought the characters to life and despite the timeline switching and large-ish cast of characters I never felt lost or confused.
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Content Heads-Up: Death. Missing spouse. Loss of adult child. Infidelity. Domestic violence. Gaslighting, mental abuse. Slavery (recalled, character opinions). Sexual content (consentual; mentioned, insinuated). Infidelity (on page; descriptive). Toxic gender dynamics. Racism (internalized, externalized; colourism).
Rep includes: Nigerian and Carribean immigration, history, and cultural outlooks; foreign wives of Nigerian men.
Format: Library Audio via Libby.
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Graphic: Infidelity
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Racism
Minor: Slavery
cc_shelflove's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
The front of the book promised it would be “thrillingly suspenseful.” When I reached the halfway mark, I questioned what exactly the blurb was referring to. Unfortunately the majority of The Nigerwife describes Nicole’s unhappiness and her marital affair. It was disjointed and rambling, and I could have cared less what happened to her. There were many recollections of the past that did not add to the story. I found that I kept asking myself, “Wait. What timeline are we in?” Until this novel, I honestly did not think it possible for a book to have TOO much detail. 😴 I did enjoy learning about the Nigerwives Nigeria community and the real life dangers of the Lagos Lagoon. Next, please!
Graphic: Death, Infidelity, Rape, and Child abuse
susie_bee's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Infidelity
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Slavery, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Suicidal thoughts, Child abuse, and Rape
foldingthepage_kayleigh's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
- Enjoyed Wahala by Nikki May and are looking for more books set in Nigeria
- Want a thriller that tackles cultural merging, isolation, and dissonance
- Are looking for a book with a warm weather setting to match the summer reading season
Graphic: Toxic friendship, Sexism, Sexual content, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Toxic relationship, Child abuse, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Classism, Emotional abuse, Violence, Vomit, and Slavery
Moderate: Drug abuse
Minor: Alcohol
heather667's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Violence, Blood, Body shaming, Classism, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Physical abuse, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Racism, Self harm, Sexism, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Alcohol, Excrement, Adult/minor relationship, Abandonment, Child abuse, Death of parent, Fatphobia, Murder, and Rape
Minor: Deportation, Kidnapping, and Vomit