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30something_reads's review against another edition
emotional
medium-paced
4.0
Despite this being classified as a Romance, the actual romance felt more like a catalyst for the dynamic family story that revolves around Soraya, her siblings, and their Iranian immigrant parents. And while yes, it does technically meet the genre parameters, the romantic plot between Soraya and Magnus felt far less impactful (or important) than the multigenerational story of her family.
This is further emphasized by the POVs we get - a present day POV from Soraya as she's navigating her relationship with Magnus/her interactions with family and a past POV from her mother as we put together the story of her marriage and their immigration to Britain.
So overall, I would not fully recommend this strictly based on the romance, but I would absolutely recommend if you're interested in a multigenerational story that tackles the challenges of growing up in the Iranian diaspora with a splash of romance on the side.
CWs: anxiety, depression, physical abuse, threats of violence, infidelity, racism
This is further emphasized by the POVs we get - a present day POV from Soraya as she's navigating her relationship with Magnus/her interactions with family and a past POV from her mother as we put together the story of her marriage and their immigration to Britain.
So overall, I would not fully recommend this strictly based on the romance, but I would absolutely recommend if you're interested in a multigenerational story that tackles the challenges of growing up in the Iranian diaspora with a splash of romance on the side.
CWs: anxiety, depression, physical abuse, threats of violence, infidelity, racism
Content Warnings
Graphic: Physical abuse and Sexism
Moderate: Infidelity, Drug use, and Mental illness
Minor: Domestic abuse, Racism, and Violence
kfrey's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
informative
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Infidelity and Physical abuse
Moderate: Drug use
Minor: Racism
alfalky's review
emotional
reflective
sad
tense
slow-paced
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
3.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Domestic abuse
Moderate: Islamophobia, Physical abuse, Bullying, Racism, Racial slurs, Alcoholism, Toxic relationship, and Drug abuse
lennie_reads's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
reflective
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Thanks to Netgalley & Random House UK, Cornerstone, Arrow for my ARC.
This book hurt my heart.
It hurt for both Soraya and her mum, Neda, as well as Soraya's siblings and Magnus.
Whilst romance is a part of this book, there is a Lot more to it than that.
The book is a dual pov and also a dual timeline. We have Soraya in 2014 fresh out of university and Neda, her mother, at around the same age in 1970's Iran.
This book was a lot heavier than I expected and features struggles around identity, societal expectations, cultural differences, religious expectations, being a person of colour growing up in britian, living as an immigrant in Britain, sexism, harassment, domestic abuse, drug addiction and more.
Even though it was heartbreaking I really appreciated the dual timelines and seeing how Soraya's parents came to be the way they were.
I'm a white woman who doesn't come from a strict religious background so I can't speak to the authenticity of the representation but it was a harrowing tale nonetheless. All I know is I just wanted to hug Soraya and Neda.
This book hurt my heart.
It hurt for both Soraya and her mum, Neda, as well as Soraya's siblings and Magnus.
Whilst romance is a part of this book, there is a Lot more to it than that.
The book is a dual pov and also a dual timeline. We have Soraya in 2014 fresh out of university and Neda, her mother, at around the same age in 1970's Iran.
This book was a lot heavier than I expected and features struggles around identity, societal expectations, cultural differences, religious expectations, being a person of colour growing up in britian, living as an immigrant in Britain, sexism, harassment, domestic abuse, drug addiction and more.
Even though it was heartbreaking I really appreciated the dual timelines and seeing how Soraya's parents came to be the way they were.
I'm a white woman who doesn't come from a strict religious background so I can't speak to the authenticity of the representation but it was a harrowing tale nonetheless. All I know is I just wanted to hug Soraya and Neda.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racial slurs, Drug use, Domestic abuse, Addiction, Alcohol, Emotional abuse, Violence, and Racism
Moderate: Islamophobia, Misogyny, Sexual content, Fatphobia, Suicidal thoughts, Body shaming, Toxic relationship, Infidelity, and Self harm
lyla_wicks's review against another edition
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
though this book was marketed as a romance, it is definitely more of a coming of age story, and although i still found this quite interesting to read about, i wish we saw more of the romance, and i wasn’t too invested in the mum’s plot line. despite this, i really loved the writing and came to really like the characters
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism, Islamophobia, Domestic abuse, Addiction, and Drug use
hopelessromanticbookworm's review against another edition
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? N/A
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.5
The cover of this book is what intrigued me to wanting to read this book. But it was also the blurb that drew me in.
When I started reading this book I found it boring, I wasn’t really clicking to the storyline even though I found some characters interesting.
I liked how this book is representing Muslims and their belief, so I felt this book was more of an educational kind of story than a romance.
I understood the barriers that the main character was having and how her belief was affecting her way of life, as well as all the pressures from home. But to be honest, I felt like it was really repetitive and the romance just felt flat for me.
I understand that this is what some/all Muslims go through day to day, and it was a great insight of their culture etc but I just don’t think it worked as a romance for me.
I understand that POC get racially abused by their colour or religion or anything in every day life and was shared within this book and I can understand how hurtful that can be. But when reading this book not only did I feel attacked by the sexism on where women should be (eg. The kitchen), there was multiple times that referenced “white people” when it comes to sex, relationships etc and that the family (especially the women) shouldn’t do certain things because “white people” do that and it’s bad and dirty etc.
And me being a white British women I just felt uncomfortable and a little hurt on the references.
Overall there will be people who love it, but for me it just wasn’t a book I enjoyed. And as mentioned the only thing I liked about it was the educational aspect of Muslims, their beliefs & their way of life x
When I started reading this book I found it boring, I wasn’t really clicking to the storyline even though I found some characters interesting.
I liked how this book is representing Muslims and their belief, so I felt this book was more of an educational kind of story than a romance.
I understood the barriers that the main character was having and how her belief was affecting her way of life, as well as all the pressures from home. But to be honest, I felt like it was really repetitive and the romance just felt flat for me.
I understand that this is what some/all Muslims go through day to day, and it was a great insight of their culture etc but I just don’t think it worked as a romance for me.
I understand that POC get racially abused by their colour or religion or anything in every day life and was shared within this book and I can understand how hurtful that can be. But when reading this book not only did I feel attacked by the sexism on where women should be (eg. The kitchen), there was multiple times that referenced “white people” when it comes to sex, relationships etc and that the family (especially the women) shouldn’t do certain things because “white people” do that and it’s bad and dirty etc.
And me being a white British women I just felt uncomfortable and a little hurt on the references.
Overall there will be people who love it, but for me it just wasn’t a book I enjoyed. And as mentioned the only thing I liked about it was the educational aspect of Muslims, their beliefs & their way of life x
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism, Addiction, and Sexism
Minor: Religious bigotry
theshivaniyadav's review
emotional
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Violence, Infidelity, and Drug abuse
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, and Pregnancy
Minor: Racial slurs and Racism
gaiadances's review
emotional
reflective
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
Content Warnings
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Islamophobia, and Racism
frantic_vampire's review
I think this book just isn’t for me 🤷♀️. It’s definitely not the romance book that I thought it was going to be. It’s more of a family drama, I think? It’s told through two different timelines with a lot of internalized religious guilt, sexism, and racism. With a thin vail of romance to cover its rough edges. I’m not sure if it’s the writing style or if it’s the characters themselves, but I’m not connecting with the story at all. And I think it would be best for me to pass this book on to someone who would really enjoy it.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Islamophobia, and Racism
Minor: Alcoholism