4.27 AVERAGE

adventurous dark emotional funny reflective sad tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional hopeful reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

The writing is dense and beautiful; the opening pages give a perfect idea of how lush the prose is.
adventurous emotional reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

the main character was so deeply unlikeable I just couldn't get myself to care about the rest of his journey (after chapter 14)
emotional slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

3.5 ⭐️ overall but rounded up 
A young Vietnamese man about to jump from a bridge is persuaded by an old Lithuanian woman, and end up better her live in caregiver. 

The story introduces other characters as Hai gets a job,  intertwining family plot lines and meaning of life. I really felt like each characters personalities came to life,  with their mannerisms, philosophies and interactions. A bit of humor sprinkled in too. 

The fact thar this is heavily inspired by Ocean vuong relationship with his real life Grazina make it so impactful. As someone who had a loved one with alzheimer's too, the time shifts and memory loss is such a hard topic and area to navigate so I think vuong portrayed this well. Overall a story about willingness to live, memory, and who shapes us by gaining friendship and family in unforseen circumstances.

Tu esi mano draugas - You are my friend

This book was really good😭