4.03 AVERAGE

challenging dark emotional funny informative reflective sad tense
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Just not in the mood right now

I'm giving this five stars despite the ending
challenging emotional medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I’m not a member of the LGBTQ+ community, so it feels awkward to criticize the trans women’s actions or choices in Detransition, Baby….but the book showed so much misogyny and self-loathing that I didn’t like a single character.The plot sets up interesting questions about womanhood, parenthood, and queer parenting, but chaos, ridiculous decisions, and unnecessary tangents took over.  It’s not okay to glamorize domestic violence or fetishize HIV, regardless of gender identity. The book also touches on racism, privilege, abortion, and suicide, but failed to develop any of those topics meaningfully. Detransition, Baby just didn’t live up to the hype for me. 
challenging emotional funny reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging emotional sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

While I think the story touches on some important themes, I'm just not sure the way they were presented was coherent at the end of it all. The characters seem to be hinting that they've grown by the end, but we don't really get to see if that sticks, or leads to satisfying outcomes. Really lags after a brilliant first chapter, and then picks back up at the 2/3rds mark. A greater linearity in presentation may have shown character growth more clearly? Not sure. Appreciated that trans people could take center stage in a humanizing way, they so often take a back seat or are presented to be really odd when they're just normal people.
challenging emotional reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging dark emotional funny reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes