3.72 AVERAGE

erinn7's review

3.5
emotional funny reflective sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

meudie's review

5.0
challenging funny tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

3.5 rounded up

this is was a book with promise but unfortunately didn’t maintain it, at least in my opinion.
i really liked the first half, but after then, just got bored of it. not sure if it was the writing stile, or if i just wasn‘t a big fan of the random mystical parallels; i mean in some ways i understood the thought behind it, but it just felt very out of the blue for me? just not a book i particulary enjoyed idk
funny lighthearted reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

I thought this would be one of my top reads of 2025. Unfortunately, the second half really didn't deliver what the first promised. 
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I found this an uneven book. I completely bought the story of the narrator's childhood growing up in a strictly religious household, while also coming to understand her own desires towards women. It was perfectly voiced as a naive but intelligent child, streaked with wry and sometimes excellent humour.

But things just started to fall apart at about page 120. I didn't buy the parallel of the mythical stories, and found a tightly drawn character disintegrate before my eyes. 

Is this a deliberate technique mirroring the effect of her rejection by her family and community? Maybe. But if it is, I don't think it needed to be done at the expense of the book's impetus.

khall9's review

4.0
fast-paced
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vol6_paulina's review

4.75
challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
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ash_denham4's review

3.25
funny slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character

Last book of 2023! I went into this book blind, only knowing that it fit the Popsugar reading challenge prompt “a book about a forbidden romance.” This was a weird but well written novel. It was a mixture of coming-of-age, parable, and memoir. The religious stuff went over my head so I probably didn’t get as much out of this as others with a more religious upbringing would. Nevertheless, I enjoyed parts of this sapphic romance Bildungsroman.

Here was my favorite line: “Walls protect and walls limit. It is in the nature of walls that they should fall. That walls should fall is the consequence of blowing your own trumpet.” (112)

I read this book for one reason and one reason only: It was in one of my all time favorite sitcom, Spaced (which I highly recommend if you like British humor!).

I have very mixed feelings about this book. I enjoyed the main plot and the interesting relationship between the narrator and her mother. However, that’s about it, and to be honest I found it to be a bit boring. It was interesting enough for me to finish it, but I just don’t think it’s for me.