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The Wedding Date by Jasmine Guillory

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bzliz's review against another edition

funny lighthearted medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

The Wedding Date jumps right in to the action as Drew Nichols gets stuck in an elevator with Alexa Monroe and walks away with her secured as his date to his best friend’s wedding to his ex-girlfriend. He has a habit of keeping his relationships short so they never get to the bad part while she’s doing something spontaneous and not serious for once. Of course they can’t stay away from each other and are dating without admitting that they’re dating until it all comes crashing down at a 4th of July party.

This was my first Jasmine Guillory book and though it was cute, it was forgettable. I’ll give her other books a shot though. I liked that there wasn’t a lot of bumbling around until Drew and Alexa meet. Some romances drag this out way too long. My biggest complaint is that everything is repetitive. These two meet up every weekend to hook up and eat and we rarely see anything outside of that. Every conversation with their friends is basically the same- Carlos tells Drew that he can tell Alexa is special and she’s his girl even if Drew won’t admit it, Theo says looks like you had a good/bad weekend. We also don’t really see any growth from either of them. Sure, they apologize for hurting each other and not talking about their feelings but they never discuss Alexa’s tendency to jump to conclusions and decide Drew’s feelings for him, nor do they address Drew’s unfounded jealousy and he doesn’t seem to grow from his realizations that he’s led a privileged life.

If you’re looking for fluff without much substance with lots of fade to black sex scenes you’ll probably enjoy this.

Content warnings:
Racism (on page):

Alexa mentions dealing with microaggressions. She has a discussion with Drew about how his teenage escapades were treated differently because he is a white guy; this is eye opening for him and he seems to have never considered that things he got away with would have been handled differently if he’d been black. The white neighborhood is generally against Alexa’s plans for an art program for at risk teens and some community members argue that those kids should be punished and they’ll corrupt other kids rather than be rehabilitated. A man at the wedding is sleazy toward Alexa and later tries to rope Drew into telling him what it’s like to sleep with a Black woman. A guy at the 4th of July party keeps asking Alexa where she’s from and not accepting California as an answer because apparently black people cant be from California??

Sexual content (on page): Less than 1 pepper for spice.

Many sex scenes but all are pretty mild. The most explicit language is about pinching nipples and all penetrative sex is fade-to-black.

Cancer (child, on page):

Drew is a pediatric surgeon who seems to do a lot of other tasks at the hospital. One of his patients turns out to have cancer and he tells the boy’s mother. The child gets chemotherapy but there’s no resolution on his diagnosis.

Fatphobia (on page):

Internalized, Alexa often compares her body to the other women around her. She insists she’s too heavy in a scene where Drew picks her up and in another scene she rolls off him saying she’s too heavy.

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destinynichole11's review

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funny lighthearted fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? N/A
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

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ju_harue's review against another edition

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funny lighthearted fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Gostei muito de como abordaram as pautas raciais das mais diversas representatividades, as questões de confiança, de corpos, de vulnerabilidades psicológicas e sociais...

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midnightbelles's review

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funny lighthearted medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Plot
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

This was enjoyable to read. I thought it was interesting to start the book with the two mcs meeting and I wish they communicated better (major are we dating or are we not dating back miscommunication that felt really stupid) but their relationship was cute. overall this is just a basic fake dating romance so no complaints from me

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imnotadorableimpunk's review

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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annahamburger's review against another edition

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emotional funny inspiring lighthearted reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

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khymihr's review against another edition

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lighthearted relaxing fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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michellestoll's review against another edition

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emotional lighthearted medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Loveable characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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onefineelephant's review

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lighthearted medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

6/10. This book is not what I expected. I wanted a steamy adult romance with a splash of fake dating. I got a Wattpad-esque fade-to-black romance with two thirty-ish-year-olds who act incredibly immature and insecure. The entire basis of their relationship is their attraction to each other and "feeling comfortable" together. There were many sex scenes but they weren't explicit which I feel really took away from the story considering one of the only things they did together was have sex. Also, it was really offputting for me that the book never once mentioned Drew's family or touched on Alexa's parents. And the book kind of praised Drew for not being racist or sexist or that he "protected" Alexa from these things but that is literally the bare minimum. Drew is one of the most plain love interests/protagonists that I've ever read about and his relationship hangup did not make any sense. The book posited Drew's inability to commit to stem from his past relationship with Molly and that he broke up with her and she was upset with him which made him feel bad so he didn't want to go through that again but it never actually gave a reason as to WHY he broke up with her in the first place. It just kept saying he "broke the heart of the nicest person ever" without ever explaining why. I didn't hate it but I didn't like it; it was mostly just bland.

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ashleycmms's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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