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Sometimes I Trip On How Happy We Could Be: Essays by Nichole Perkins
3 reviews
buttongirl22's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
medium-paced
4.25
This is a beautifully written and real collection of essays about growing up as a girl, womanhood, music, family, and sexuality.
Moderate: Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Alcoholism, Racism, Infidelity, Racial slurs, Cursing, Drug use, and Physical abuse
Minor: Police brutality, Rape, Stalking, Vomit, and Grief
lipstickitotheman's review against another edition
emotional
funny
4.5
Graphic: Alcohol, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexual assault, Infidelity, Rape, Sexual content, Racism, Stalking, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Ableism, Physical abuse, Police brutality, and Addiction
meemawreads's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
informative
medium-paced
4.0
“He was another man following some script he imagined would appeal to me and he couldn’t accept that I was not performing my lines. When asked me if I wanted a boyfriend and my answer was ambiguous, he took it as a sign to woo me, to show me he could be what I said I didn’t want.”
TW: assault, police violence
This essay collection covers topics from Christianity to BDSM, I love variety. I was moved by her fear for her Black autistic brother having a run-in with a trigger happy cop. The above quote is from the essay I connected with most, detailing a relationship that resulted in Stealthing (non-consensual removal of a condom, which is absolutely sexual assault), gaslighting and stalking. I’ve always had a particular bee in my bonnet about men who lurk in the shadows waiting for you to change your mind about them. “The idea that if you keep showering a woman with gifts and telling her you know her mind better than she does, she’ll eventually succumb to your intentions…” Red flag behavior 🚩
It is my experience that people who actually LIKE me hear my no and are okay, because their goal was for me to like them back. When people who don’t actually like me hear my no, they don’t accept it because their goal was to WIN. I’m a symbol, a prize to be won, and breaking my will is a game. These are dangerous people. I’m grateful to Nichole for putting it on paper because we don’t talk about it enough.
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TW: assault, police violence
This essay collection covers topics from Christianity to BDSM, I love variety. I was moved by her fear for her Black autistic brother having a run-in with a trigger happy cop. The above quote is from the essay I connected with most, detailing a relationship that resulted in Stealthing (non-consensual removal of a condom, which is absolutely sexual assault), gaslighting and stalking. I’ve always had a particular bee in my bonnet about men who lurk in the shadows waiting for you to change your mind about them. “The idea that if you keep showering a woman with gifts and telling her you know her mind better than she does, she’ll eventually succumb to your intentions…” Red flag behavior 🚩
It is my experience that people who actually LIKE me hear my no and are okay, because their goal was for me to like them back. When people who don’t actually like me hear my no, they don’t accept it because their goal was to WIN. I’m a symbol, a prize to be won, and breaking my will is a game. These are dangerous people. I’m grateful to Nichole for putting it on paper because we don’t talk about it enough.
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Graphic: Sexual assault
Moderate: Police brutality
The sexual assault is Stealthing
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