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hannevdss's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Homophobia, Alcoholism, Sexism, Sexual violence, Emotional abuse, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Alcohol, Bullying, Death, and Death of parent
acebookwyrm's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Backman is fantastic at writing complex characters, particularly women, with full lives. The part in Ch 44 where Kevin's mom talks to Benji, then Maya, is one of the best scenes in the book.
Graphic: Bullying, Homophobia, Violence, Rape, and Misogyny
Moderate: Vomit, Child death, Grief, and Stalking
Minor: Child abuse
trufflenerd's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Moderate: Rape, Drug use, and Alcoholism
Minor: Child abuse
abbie_eibba's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Rape
Moderate: Homophobia, Suicidal thoughts, and Violence
Minor: Child abuse and Child death
taracloudclark's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
The first half of this book is a lot of exposition, setting the stage for the driving action. But it’s done well, creatively, interestingly. In other words, “nothing happens,” and I was *almost* bored with it, but I only had to push through a little. It kind of reminds me of Spoon River Anthology with the intertwining of lives and stories of a small town where everyone knows everyone and always have (except the newbies, but that’s not portrayed as harshly as many of this trope).
While it’s a sports town, the sport itself doesn’t take a front seat. It truly is the background while still sating any love for it.
This definitely borders on literary fiction bc the structure is done in a very precise and lovely way, using almost poetic mechanisms such as repeated phrases and parallelism. The narrative style also has a starkness that reflects the setting and the situation, and vice versa. Tension and foreshadowing are done in an obvious but not ridiculous manner. The *way* it was written is as well done as the story itself.
This is definitely a book for consideration. The story is laid out, and while there’s no ambiguity as to “what happened,” there is much speculation to be made as to why and how and what the underlying issues are and how else they affect society. There are no stark answers given. Bad behavior is mentioned, implicated, but not condemned outright. That’s for the reader to determine, negotiate in some cases. Anyone who feels this is moralizing is probably on the more brutal side of the issue.
The narrator Marin Ireland does very well in complimenting the narrative style as well. It’s 3rd person, and the author is male, but I’m pleased they chose a female to tell this story. Such topics through the male perspective can be troublesome, but I feel like the author did well and the narrator helped convince me of it.
Graphic: Child death, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Grief, Gun violence, Alcohol, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Murder, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Vomit, Classism, Blood, Outing, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic friendship, Child abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Death of parent, Drug abuse, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Violence, Addiction, Bullying, Drug use, Mental illness, and Suicide
rosiereading's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexism, and Sexual assault
Minor: Bullying, Alcohol, Child abuse, and Eating disorder
samlo28's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Bullying, Suicidal thoughts, Homophobia, Sexism, Death, Xenophobia, Racial slurs, Ableism, Self harm, Rape, Eating disorder, Addiction, Child death, Child abuse, and Gun violence
mosshroomish's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
edit, now that i've had time to sit with my thoughts and cry them out...
i already knew this author was good, but to see how he creates life in people that don't exist is truly astounding. everyone was written with care and understanding. everyone had realistic and deep relationships. everyone was flawed and absolutely and thoroughly human. everyone made mistakes, everyone had triumphs. everyone believed they were making the best decision they could in their circumstances, and you're forced to sit with some uncomfortable realizations that you might've done the same because you're also human. this is a book i finished in one sitting because i could not put it down. this is a book that will stick with me forever. this is a book i will recommend to everyone i know. i will probably buy a copy and reread it multiple times.
in some more nitty gritty aspects:
some people find it hard to follow the multiple POV, but i felt that because every single character was so completely fleshed out, it wasn't as difficult.
i'm also a sucker for repetition, especially lines that stay nearly identical but hit in different ways the further you progress. the author does an amazing job of placing these lines in just the right spot to sucker punch you dead.
the author has a prose-poem style of writing, if that's the sort of thing you're into as well (i definitely am). the words he weaves create an incredible tapestry that seemed to just flow directly into my brain.
all in all, this was an incredible book about community, sports, and childhood, and how they all come together in different ways to create separate individuals.
Graphic: Sexual violence, Violence, and Rape
Minor: Child abuse and Suicide
andrewhatesham's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, Injury/Injury detail, and Self harm
Moderate: Cursing, Child death, and Sexism
Minor: Alcoholism, Blood, Racism, Bullying, Child abuse, Grief, Classism, Vomit, Gun violence, Alcohol, Homophobia, and Pregnancy
miaaa_lenaaa's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Ok
Um
That held literally fucking nothing back
What
That was impressively hard to read because it was very well written
I love ramona and benji and bobo (i listened to the audiobook so idk it’s that’s how theyre spelt)
‘Its never your fault is it? When are you going to admit that it isnt hockey that raises these boys its you’
Graphic: Child abuse, Physical abuse, Gaslighting, Blood, Violence, Rape, Vomit, Misogyny, and Alcohol