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The Death of Vivek Oji by Akwaeke Emezi

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kelly_e's review

emotional sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

Title: The Death of Vivek Oji
Author: Akwaeke Emezi
Genre: Contemporary Fiction
Rating: 3.75
Pub Date: June 1 2020

T H R E E • W O R D S

Devastating • Moving • Powerful

📖 S Y N O P S I S

Vivek is dead, and when the lifeless body shows up bloodied and bare on the parents doorstep, a family is sent into the despairs of grief, and yet the mother can't help but question the circumstances and mysteries of the death. A story of friendship and family, of grief and denial, of identity and acceptance, of sexuality and loyalty, of community and cultural clashes that challenges expectations.

💭 T H O U G H T S

The story starts out with Vivek's death, and his mother finding his lifeless body on her front porch. From there the author takes the reader on a journey back in time to unravel the mysteries surrounding his life and ultimately his death. Akwaeke Emezi has the gift of beautiful language and writing in such a way that as a reader I felt transported into the story. It's written in a non-linear fashion, but the flow is easy to follow. Vivek, is truly an unforgettable character, and probably one of the most powerful and inspiring ones I've come across this year. The unguarded expression of self in the face of so much adversity is admirable. And I wanted so much more of this character and perspective. Maybe I am being difficult, but I truly the felt the power was in Vivek.

This book extends far beyond the confines of its classification as fiction. It's a coming-of-age story rooted in culture and family, acceptance and love, guilt and grief. It is truly a story of embracing human experience, whatever that might be. The Death of Vivek Oji is a necessary yet heartbreaking novel.

📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• any reader!
• readers who want depth to their story
• reader looking for excellent African LGBTQ+ lit

🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S

"I'm not what anyone thinks I am. I never was. I didn't have the mouth to put it into words, to say what was wrong, to change the things I felt I needed to change. And every day it was difficult, walking around and knowing that people saw me one way, knowing that they were wrong, so completely wrong, that the real me was invisible to them. It didn't even exist to them. So: If nobody sees you, are you still there?"

"I'd heard it since secondary school, and I knew what that night was supposed to make me. Less than a man - something disgusting, something weak and shameful. But if that pleasure was supposed to stop me from being a man, then fine. They could have it. I'd take the blinding light of his touch, the blessed peace of having him so close, and I would stop being a man."

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challenging dark sad tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

Would have been a solid 4 stars (great writing, nuanced characters) if not for the

incest that goes uncriticized and often romanticized.

Unnecessary and made it a really difficult read for me personally.

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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

3.5 stars

Akwaeke Emezi's writing is absolutely gorgeous. It flows beautifully, is incredibly easy to fall into, and has some lines that'll stay with me forever.

I loved that this was a masterfully crafted book. The fact that we don't get a lot of Vivek's chapters/thoughts really resonated with the rest of the book, the idea that most people didn't really know Vivek fully. It's really a beautifully crafted story.

However, there's a few things I didn't know how to feel about. The incest wasn't one of them, weirdly enough, but I understand that the main romantic/sexual relationship being between cousins is going to be upsetting or triggering to some people, so be warned.

No, what bothered me is that I spoiled the ending for myself before picking it up.

Spoiler

So, spoilers ahead. I didn't know if I could go through a book about a death to transmisogynist violence, so I looked at spoilers and found out Vivek doesn't die to transphobic violence. Which made it easier to read the book, but meant that it didn't always sit right with me that the whole book implies a transphobic death that ends up being an accident. I probably need to think about it more because I can see a bit of what the author was going for with that ending, but I don't really like it. It's probably not the intention but it feels a tiny bit like "hey let's talk about how horrible transmisogyny is all throughout the book and then GOTCHU it was an accident" (though the accident could be further commentary about how being scared/hiding is also dangerous?)

I'm just. Really ambivalent about that ending. But I enjoyed almost everything else about the book immensely, so it's really hard to rate it properly. Maybe I'll change the rating when I've thought about the ending some more.

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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challenging emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

This book was wonderful and all consuming. The exploration of grief and the messiness of the characters' lives was expertly done and made them feel like real people.

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challenging dark emotional mysterious sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

At first I was a little lost with the changing timelines (even though normally I like this style) but by the end I appreciated the artistic device for the way it built the mystery up for the reveal. When it came, I felt physically knocked by the tragedy and unfairness of it all. The cast of characters were complex and interesting, with few being entirely likeable but all feeling real and sparking empathy. The story was a nuanced portrayal of what it means to come to terms with others' gender and sexual identities, as well as your own, in a culture that is not ready to accept them. I really appreciated the exploration of the various forms love and loyalty can take, between families, friends and loves, as well as the taboos of crossing those lines. Sentences and dialogue were also beautifully written. Overall a surprising and affecting read.

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