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mekowaletti's review
challenging
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
status_woe's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
informative
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Not perfect, but made me think a lot about how we view the human body, disability, life, death, art and religion and how they all play into one another.
The protagonist, Janet, is not a nice person, and I think she is more unpleasant than the author intended her to be. I think we are supposed to see redemption at the end of the story, but I'm not sure it quite worked. Perhaps if the book had been longer, that could have been explored more. Nevertheless I thought it was an interesting idea and I liked the writing style, which is fairly pared back.
The author is male and able bodied with (self professed) limited experience of the care profession and disability. How accurate the personal care elements of the book are in the context of Sean's disability, I couldn't say. The therapist towards the end of the book, however, has some jarringly unrealistic dialogue.
Overall though I thought it was an interesting idea, it raised a lot of questions about how we afford other human beings dignity when they require our care.
The protagonist, Janet, is not a nice person, and I think she is more unpleasant than the author intended her to be. I think we are supposed to see redemption at the end of the story, but I'm not sure it quite worked. Perhaps if the book had been longer, that could have been explored more. Nevertheless I thought it was an interesting idea and I liked the writing style, which is fairly pared back.
The author is male and able bodied with (self professed) limited experience of the care profession and disability. How accurate the personal care elements of the book are in the context of Sean's disability, I couldn't say. The therapist towards the end of the book, however, has some jarringly unrealistic dialogue.
Overall though I thought it was an interesting idea, it raised a lot of questions about how we afford other human beings dignity when they require our care.
hollymmcg's review against another edition
dark
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
Not so much a book about caregiving as it is a book about a deeply shitty person who is also a caregiver.
"When Sean is faced with an unexpected and deeply personal tragedy, Janet must let her guard down at last and discover what she's prepared to fight for." Except she doesn't let her guard down. And she isn't prepared to fight for anything, except maybe physically fight the person who's trusted his care to her for nearly a year.
2 stars because the longer the book went on, the less of a fuck I gave about Janet and the more I wished she'd fall down a hole. Poor Sean.
"When Sean is faced with an unexpected and deeply personal tragedy, Janet must let her guard down at last and discover what she's prepared to fight for." Except she doesn't let her guard down. And she isn't prepared to fight for anything, except maybe physically fight the person who's trusted his care to her for nearly a year.
2 stars because the longer the book went on, the less of a fuck I gave about Janet and the more I wished she'd fall down a hole. Poor Sean.
giunic's review
adventurous
challenging
emotional
informative
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
katsmedialibrary's review against another edition
Incredibly ableist
Graphic: Ableism
nyreen's review
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Ableism
Moderate: Suicide, Death, and Abandonment
gemmaduds's review against another edition
2.0
This is a book by an able-bodied man with “limited experience of doing care work” (his words), writing about a woman who cares for a man who has cerebral palsy. There are so many inaccuracies that I just couldn’t escape them.
nei's review
dark
emotional
informative
lighthearted
reflective
medium-paced
4.0
Narration was clear and easy to understand.
leilabp4's review
dark
emotional
reflective
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
samaira's review
I don't know. I know I haven't gotten that far in the book but already I feel the way that the caretaker talks about Sean sounds patronising and I don't like it.