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Ένας πολύ γλυκός θάνατος by Simone de Beauvoir

whataliciaisreading's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced

5.0

“When someone you love dies you pay for the sin of outliving her with a thousand piercing regrets.”

Simone de Beauvoir’s ‘A Very Easy Death’ recounts, day by day, the final weeks of her mother’s life. Simone de Beauvoir's style is marked by its honesty, a rawness that materialises the most  difficult and abstracts of emotions into text. 

Most disheartening is her mother’s loss of autonomy and dignity (which, in opposition to her usual character, demonstrates a loss of self in these final days) and the continued suffering facilitated by doctors who believe it is their vocational duty to prioritise even a temporary survival. De Beauvoir shows us, in acute detail, that dying is often a far worse ordeal than death. 

Paired in this edition with Ali Smith’s persuasive introduction (which asks the seminal question, 'Can you ever really yoke together with anything other than unease the word ‘easy’ and the word ‘death’?’), it is rewarding when reading to understand the controversy that surrounded this account upon its initial publication. In the 86 pages of this emotive yet unsentimental account of her mother dying, Simone de Beauvoir does not pull any punches. Yet it’s this frankness with which she shares those painful details that makes this a must-read. 

sofisss's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.5

elsphippard's review against another edition

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dark reflective sad slow-paced

4.25

ceceliacaldwell's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced

3.0

malu's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad fast-paced

4.5

letamcwilliams's review against another edition

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4.0

we stan a writer who can unpack family trauma

eyen's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad slow-paced

3.75

desireeslibrary's review against another edition

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3.0

An interesting reflection on watching your mother away. But, I don't know.... I do myself to be more critical of shorter books. I found myself yearning for more while reading and at times it felt a bit self-indulgent. It had the potential to destroy me... but did not. I can see why people love it though, it's raw and emotional and beautiful. Just wasn't the best for me.

cruzsuzanne's review against another edition

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4.0

"When someone you love dies you pay for the sin of outliving her with a thousand piercing regrets. Her death brings to light her unique quality; she grows as vast as the world that her absence annihilates for her and whose whole existence was caused by her being there; you feel that she should have had more room in your life –all the room, if need be. You snatch yourself away from this wildness: she was only one among many. But since you never do all you might for anyone –not even within the arguable limits that you have set yourself –you have plenty of room left for self-reproach."

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emotional reflective sad fast-paced

4.5