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When Women Were Dragons by Kelly Barnhill

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niyou's review

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emotional slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

This book would have been much better as a novella or short story. In such a format the glaring whiteness of the characters and feminism might have been less obvious. Barnhill includes one (1) brief anecdote about African Americans. Indigenous peoples do not exist in this book. Towards the end of the story, the author goes full white savior with dragons advocating for minorities, educating foreign war lords and, get this, winning the Nobel Peace Price for it lmao. 

Someone publishing work in 2022 should know more and be better. Maybe Barnhill only writes what she knows, and if that is the case I urge her to step out of her bland little bubble and meet the rest of the world. 

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aocean's review against another edition

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lighthearted reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

1.75


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bisexualwentworth's review

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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Thank you to NetGalley for the eARC of this book. All opinions are my own.

If you know me at all, then you'll know that I am currently on a quest to find good books with both dragons and queer characters, so naturally I was very excited for this one. And it definitely delivered on the sapphics + dragons front, but I'm not totally sure it delivered as a book.

When Women Were Dragons is mostly the fictional memoir of a girl named Alex who grows us just after the Mass Dragoning of the 1950s, when thousands of women spontaneously turn into dragons, many of them burning down their homes and/or eating their husbands.

Dragoning is a vehicle for female rage and for these characters to find freedom, and I thought that the actual dragon parts of the book were fascinating and compelling. Alex's story is interspersed with various news articles and studies about the dragons, and I found all of them more compelling than her actual fake memoir stuff.

It wasn't that I disliked Alex as a character. I thought that her whole arc was a fascinating study in internalized misogyny and parental abuse and gaslighting. I loved her relationship with her sister. I liked that she was a sapphic woman in STEM. If this book had been straightforward historical fiction, I probably would have liked Alex's stuff more, but I cannot express how frustrating it was to read a book about dragons where the main character doesn't believe in dragons until about 3/4 of the way through. Alex was also very Not Like Other Girls, but that was definitely the point.

I very much think the author accomplished what she set out to with this book. I just also think that it could have done a lot more.

Misc things I liked:
  • Sapphic polyamorous dragons!
  • All of the later stuff with the dragons was generally really interesting
  • Fuck the dad oh my god (compliments to the author)

Misc things I did not like:
  • Dragoning is a metaphor for menstruation for a LOT of this book. That's fine, but it made the later attempts at including trans women feel kind of hollow
  • Are all of the dragons white? People of color are mentioned in this book, but all the dragons we meet are former white women

Anyway, just don't expect this sapphic dragon book to actually be about the dragons and instead expect it to be about a teen girl who loves math and has massive amounts of internalized misogyny.

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dreamweaver's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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asa_s_16's review against another edition

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emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0


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amiegold's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I liked this book, it was reflective and emotional and really made you think in a  way that was unique and refreshing. It is a book that has quite a bit of feminist rage. I wish that some of the other avenues for explored with that, such as having some positive male and female interactions. But all in all, I enjoyed it!

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themirrorball's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

great characters, interesting premise, beautiful writing style, but felt like it was underdeveloped and left me feeling  like it missed the mark.

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kylieqrada's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

I was surprised by how much I loved this. Heartfelt, righteously angry, gorgeously written, intersectional for the most part. I may have drawn some unintended parallels to transness and gender, but it just seemed so clear to me! Highly recommend this one. 

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bkay1820's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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juliaureads's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful informative mysterious medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.5/5⁠
"Anger is a funny thing. And it does funny things to us if we keep it inside. I encourage you to consider a question: Who benefits, my dear, when you force yourself to not feel angry?" She tilted her head and looked at me so hard I thought she could see right into my bones. She raised her eyebrows. "Clearly not you.”⁠

⁠We all know I love a story about women getting mysterious powers, so of course, I had to grab this over the summer. ⁠

When Women Were Dragons is a historical fiction/magical realism/alternate history where the world reacts to a "mass dragoning" - one day a bunch of women leave their homes and families and turn into dragons, never to be seen again.⁠

We see these events through the eyes of two sisters - one who was old enough to understand what happened, the other too young to remember. They both come of age in a world that doesn't speak of dragons, and certainly not of the ones who left.⁠

The most resonant part of this story for me was not the dragoning itself, but society's reaction to it. Society chooses to sweep the dragoning under the rug. Speaking about family members who left becomes taboo - everyone simply moves on without explanation or finding out why. ⁠

The culture of silence and avoidance hit deeply, coming from a conservative Catholic family, I am familiar with these coping mechanisms - seeing them on a global scale in this world threw everything into sharp relief.⁠

I highly recommend this to anyone looking for historical fiction that hits differently. Lightly sapphic (romance is certainly not the main plotline), this is a coming-of-age story that dives into how the questions of our past can shape our future. 

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