albernikolauras's review against another edition

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4.25

A memoir that uses sea creatures as framing and metaphor. This is a lovely memoir that freely winds between life experiences and facts on the sea creatures the chapter references. Imbler's writing can lean a tad overly metaphorical, but the audiobook made this barely an issue. Imbler's chapters are more like essays exploring different aspects of themselves and their lives than a chronological memoir, which I felt worked perfectly for the format and the discussions they wanted to have.

Essays cross subjects like race, gender, queer romance, and complicated parents.

My favorite essays were "Starving Octopus" and "We Swarm."

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4.5

 I'll be honest, when I first saw this book as one of the nominees for Goodread's book of the year I thought that it was a book that would follow sea creatures as they interact in the ocean. Almost like a food chain, going deeper into the sea as time goes on.
I have never been happier to be wrong about a book's topic.
This is an incredibly poignant memoir for those who don't quite know who they are, but know they are getting there. Each essay is an examination of an amazing sea creature and their unique social or morphological attributes, intertwined with experiences from the author's life. 
My favorite of the essays has to be 'My Mother and the Starving Octopus', where Imbler connects an extraordinary Mother Octopus who stands vigil over her eggs for an astonishing 53 months, and how her mother's body image affects how Imbler sees herself. VERY relatable. 

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4.5


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maxthefish's review against another edition

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4.5

This is a book about queer science and I love queer people and science. I don't know what else there is to say

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5.0

This was excellent, I highly recommend the audiobook read by the author, but I want to pick up a physical copy for rereading and highlighting.

This is a beautiful memoir of a life told through the stories of sea creatures. I did not read any reviews of this before I read it so I was kind of expecting it to be heavier on the science than memoir, but it is the opposite- definitely great for someone who doesn't read a lot of science or nonfiction, but still super interesting and insightful information about sea creatures. But it's really the combining of the two into storytelling that is just so beautifully done, sometimes a story would start and I'd wonder how it was going to relate to the sea creature and other times I could kind of see where we were going, but it always interesting and beautiful. This book is also just extremely queer, which was beautiful, comforting, heartbreaking, and hopeful. 

If you liked Carmen Maria Machado's memoir In the Dream house for it's unconventional approach to a memoir I think you'll like this. It also reminded me of Minor Feelings by Cathy Park Hong for it's memoir mixed with nonfiction, but definitely just overall recommend!

 cw: sexual assault/rape, alcohol abuse, blacking out/SA, fatphobia/eating disorder, transphobia, gender dysphoria 

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5.0


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