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4.75


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challenging dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

5.0


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challenging emotional sad

4.5


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5.0

A really well done and engaging memoir retelling a life filled with pain, hardship, and triumph. I highly recommend this read, but it comes with strong content warnings for alcoholism, drug use, child abuse, rape, assault, homophobia, racism, torture, domestic abuse, child death, and other content that may be difficult for some readers.

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4.0


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laurenleigh's review against another edition

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5.0

It’s hard to know where even to start here. This was incredible. First off, I want to give Ma-Nee Chacaby the biggest hug. I am so grateful that she has chosen to set her story to paper. Chacaby has faced unfathomable hardships in her life. The hits just kept on coming. That she has even survived, let alone come out the other side healthy and stable and able to recount these stories is remarkable. I bow down to her strength, resolve, spirituality, and ability to connect to love despite everything. Her stories really got me thinking about cycles of abuse. I’ve read briefly about how alcoholism is unfortunately common in many Native communities, especially among survivors of residential schools. But hearing about it first hand from Chacaby was something else entirely. (Not that she herself went to a residential school, but she faced unthinkable trauma regardless.) There are so many webs of abuse, addiction, poverty, and violence, and their intersections are deadly. Near the end of her memoir, Chacaby notes how there’s not many queer female Indigenous elders. She thinks about all her friends and family that have died along the way, often directly because of these webs of abuse. And then it got me thinking about how where these abuse cycles began, and it’s pretty much always white supremacy. I think it’s so important for white Americans and Canadians to listen to Indigenous stories, and reflect on how we can take part in disrupting these harmful cycles. Chacaby‘s story as a disabled, lesbian, two spirit Ojibwa-Cree is one I will never forget.

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challenging emotional hopeful reflective fast-paced

5.0

I loved this book and will absolutely read it again in a future year. I grew up in north-ish Ontario in an industry town and was really reminded of a bit of that early in the book. As Ma-Nee went through the trials of her life, I felt angry for her; and then, as she discovered more about herself in her adulthood, I was joyful. I hope that whatever she's up to right now, she's surrounded in love and healing. Would absolutely read again.

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