Reviews with content warning for Child abuse - My Lovely Wife

A quick read with a plot that keeps you guessing. Was hard to get into because of the narrator being a straight guy but it was interesting to read a dark, serial-killer novel where the murderer is a woman. The last quarter of the book was thrilling but felt incredibly fast compared to the rest of the plot, this was probably intentional to convey the narrators feelings.

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jaydub0221's review

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dark sad tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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nkg202's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional mysterious tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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madluck's review

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dark mysterious tense slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Lost half a star because it was slow going for my liking and because I was spoiled by

the review on the front cover: “dexter meets gone girl”

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katiea714's review against another edition

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dark mysterious tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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anniey's review

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dark fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Plot
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.5

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cinderellasbookshelf's review

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dark mysterious tense slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Loveable characters? No

3.5

The minute I finished the first chapter of Samantha Downing’s My Lovely Wife, I was instantly intrigued. It was a very strong start that left enough mystery to want to know more. The rest is a subtle thriller where the only exhilaration from living a humdrum life in suburbia is marriage - and murder.

An unnamed narrator, who sometimes goes by “Tobias,” and his wife, Millicent, have led a fairly normal life in their well-to-do neighborhood raising their two children, Rory and Jenna. The only excitement they feed off of each other however, is that they kill people. And this isn’t the first time they have done this.

The single POV narration gave me Joe Goldberg/You vibes. It was eerie how he thought and processed things so calmly, along with some occasional frustrations when it’s related to his children’s growing pains. Even the way he and Millicent would plot or talk about the murders was unsettling. It kind of reminded me of the two characters from Alfred Hitchcock’s Shadow of a Doubt who would casually talk about how they would kill each other, except Millicent and Tobias’s actual plans felt more disturbing. You can feel the violent undertones even though most of the action happens off page and is only referenced in news reports.

Compared to other thrillers, this is less action heavy and is more focused on Tobias’s life than the actual murders. The suspense is beneath the surface where the underlying tension that brews from domesticity and its mundanity brings up a magnitude of questions: who is your spouse, what are they doing when you’re not together, who are your children, are they the way they are because of you? And the bigger question, how did I get here?

I’m kind of torn between if I liked the book overall or not. I liked the concept and how it’s different from most thrillers, but I also wanted it to have more punch because after a while there is only so much about a person’s daily home life you can take. It was a page turner though.

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moonwaterotter's review against another edition

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dark medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

I predicted the twists which took some of the fun out of it, but that’s my own fault for trying to solve the book as I read it. This is the second of Downing’s that I’ve read, and she writes from the perspective of the worst men i s2g.
All said, I did mostly enjoy it. I had an actually wtf moment halfway through the book and it was the biggest highlight for me.
And now here’s a list of my thoughts that is FULL of spoilers.

I almost DNF’d right off the bat when he first pretends to be “deaf Tobias” and ultimately realized that judging the moral compass of a serial killer is a stupid place to draw a line. But I still didn’t like that as an angle.
I immediately knew that Millicent was the “evil sister” growing up and waiting for the main character to realize that was absolutely agonizing.
I literally said “what the f-uck” out loud whenever they announced that Trista killed herself. Like at this point, I thought maybe she had helped Owen in the past (and maybe she did honestly who knows) but that’s not what I was expecting.
I also figured out Millicent was poisoning Jenna almost immediately. I thought the book was going to climax with Millicent saying she had kidnapped and killed all of the women because she was an Owen fan-girl and that she and Owen were going to murder Jenna together or something.
I thought Kekona was going to be the third victim and the cops were going to catch him at her house or something. I also thought the descriptions of Kekona were a bit strange and didn’t really sit right with me. (As well as the description of Trista’s sister at the funeral.)
I think it’s pretty fucked that the main character never tells Andy that he KNOWS WHY his wife killed herself.
The ending is cheeky but I wish they both died, not just Millicent.

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